PISSED WITH PEOPLE

[littlefightingfish]

Dont you just hate narcissistic people who dont respect boundaries?? Its always a horrible feeling dealing with these people when you work for Customer Service.

Harder too if you grew up a people pleaser because of your brain conditioning all your life!

Anyone else feel guilty after trying to set boundaries with people, even if you know thats the right thing to do?? Like you know youre in the tight direction starting to stand for yourself but somehow it still feels like Im always in the wrong!

I get frustrated with myself why I always still feel horribly guilty for saying No to people who abuse my kindness. This must be from a very low self esteem (if I actually have anything left at all) growing up in a household run by my Hitler of a controlling narcissistic father! 😡

Thats my rant for the day. I hate people.

[hypercat54]

Oh dear. I hope you don't hate all us as the site is full of people?

Welcome to the site. How can we help you?

[littlefightingfish in reply to hypercat54]

Hi hypercat,

not you guys, I love this group. I mean narcissistic people abusing other people’s boundaries all the time. thanks for asking though. I guess I just have to get more comfortable saying NO to people and not feel guilty all the time.

[cashew78]

... what you're describing is why I have absurdist and cartoonesque scenarios run through my head constantly whereby I imagine what it would literally look like if a piano randomly dropped from the sky and crushed the person in question and their families... it's not as fun as you would think because you're perpetually pissed off and disappointed with people, but sometimes it eases the moment 😒

[littlefightingfish in reply to cashew78]

Thanks for this tip, cashew78 ! Will definitely give this a try! 🙏🏻

[blackcat64013]

Hi, I hope you are just having a single bad day.

If the opposite is true, you are in the wrong job and possibly heading into emotional exhaustion and a possible break down.

If you choose to stay, you need to work on changing how you see your relationships with your clients and colleagues. You need to free yourself from your chronic unhappiness, possibly with the help of your Employee Assistance Program (EAP).

The EAP is a free & confidential counselling service provided by the employer for employees to explore all parts of their lives, including your father.

All the best 🐈‍⬛

[littlefightingfish in reply to blackcat64013]

Thanks for this!

[Purple_peace]

I completely understand your frustration! My life has been much of the same by people who say that they love me besides! It’s the worst feeling in the world feeling lonely, and unappreciated you give everything to everyone but, not one person ever gives me anything close enough to even compare to what I, sacrificed for my family and, anyone else that has done the same thing to me! I’ve learned that people who don’t Suffer from any type of invisible chronic illness no one will ever understand how it affects our everyday life because it doesn’t affect them unfortunately the world we now live in is also not helping to much hate, selfishness, and division it’s truly sad. Hope you can feel a little better knowing it’s not just you I’m sure there are many people like us that fall in this group but, we are all spread all over the world. I’m praying for you and our society as a whole that we all can stop and, look with in ourselves for that love, peace, kindness and, remember we all deserve to be treated equally no matter what we all are human and deserve health, peace, and, happiness. Sending healing energy your way ☮️💟🕉️

[littlefightingfish in reply to Purple_peace]

Thank you so much Purple_peace ! Just hearing this alone already helps make me feel better tremendously. 😩♥️

[Purple_peace]

You are so very welcome. I’m sending positive healing energy your way hope you can feel the healing calming healing vibes wash over you to help calm your anxiety and, find the peace within you cast the anxiety out of your mind. Every time I, start getting to negative in my head I, have to ask the universe for grounding protection and, keep the negative away then my peace always comes back to me. Bless you . ☮️🕉️🙏🏻