There has to be something wrong, right?

[MiamiJacket84]

If an issue keep happening repeatedly, then there has to be a common problem right? There just has to be. It can't just be purely random. How can so many different people just not like me? I've tried every possible and accessible way to pursue a relationship but not a single person has ever liked me. It worked for others doing the same things. Then I have to be the problem right? There has to be something wrong with me. There just has to be something. I don't know what it is and it infuriates me. How can I fix a problem when I don't know what it is to begin with? Is it just not fixable? Should I even bother anymore?

[CLB1125]

maybe you are trying to hard. I always told my kids you don’t find love, it finds you. My son was trying to find a gf and everyone was a gold digger. He finally said he give up. Now he has a lovely lady he’s been dating for a month. It wasn’t planned it just happened. Take a break and just enjoy life and see what happens.

[Midori in reply to CLB1125]

I agree with CLB, perhaps you are trying too hard and it comes across as needy.

Cheers, Midori

[MiamiJacket84 in reply to CLB1125]

I can't just sit and do absolutely nothing though. It's just as infuriating.

[CLB1125 in reply to MiamiJacket84]

Get out and do things you enjoy.

[MiamiJacket84 in reply to CLB1125]

The only thing I enjoy doesn't involve people. Not much of a social butterfly anyway.

[Kelkel00]

just want to send hugs! Your person is out there…don’t give up!