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Anxiety is real for me!

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When I told members of my immediate family that I was dealing with anxiety disorder, a few of them said some pretty uncomfortable things.

I didn't ask for this, I don't like it, I don't live to be this way, but I am locked in, and I have to face this as my reality.

I seek to have some consistency in my life, but anxiety can cause all sorts of chaos to come into the picture.

I am doing the steps, trying the techniques, and asking as many people as I can for tips on how to live through the anguish this condition can cause me.

I am hopeful that by coming here, I will be able to find at least the peace that comes from the simple acts of people offering me useful advice or information.

I wish to all, peace and tranquility.

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Dolphin14

You will find people here that are suffering with the same things. It's good to be validated, not questioned and misunderstood

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CHRIS198412

You are at the right place. HU people here will understand you. Good luck.

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Craigliving4Jane

we are also glad that you came to this amazing group. We also want to thank you for your time in protecting our country.

I found the feedback on here to be invaluable on the seven months I’ve been on the site.

I wish you many blessings, and a path to relief

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Teaching

I wish you peace too. Anxiety is a lot to deal with.

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bethelbee

Welcome to the community! Many of us on here have been dealing with anxiety. Those that have never experienced it will never understand what it's like. I'm sorry for the response you got from your family. We're all here to support each other. Wishing you peace as well.

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punkster

Unfortunately, people who don't suffer from anxiety disorders can't expect to understand them. My family tries to understand, but can be sympathetic but not empathetic. I'm glad you found a place where people really understand.

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Agora1

You have our support 4merBassistMedic :) xx

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Agora1

Dearest 4merBassistMedic friend...Welcome to this caring community.

My deepest condolences to you in the recent passing of your wife.

It's not surprising that Anxiety stepped in when you didn't need it. Grieving

took your stamina and strength down and anxiety moved right in. However, it

doesn't need to be a reality forever. You must grieve first and utmost to mend

your broken heart.

Your Anxiety can be helped by this forum through sharing our own experiences

in life. I am a former Paramedic who has seen a lot of suffering and losses in my life.

The one that hit me hardest was being on call when my father fell down the basement

steps on this day March 18th and passed away.

I feel your pain my new friend. Know that when you are ready to take some help from

us, we will be right here for you. Meanwhile, being here for others is a great healing

tool for you as it has been for me in the last 8 years on this site.

You are no longer alone with your fears. Thank you for your service. :) xx

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