Adjusting to life since Mum went back home

[Roukaya]

I hope everyone is coping with life .

I am slowly realising each and every one of us has our unique path to follow and life experiences.

I have been over dependent with my Mother as well as my inability to find employment since I lost my Father back in 2018.

Apart from passing the Diploma in Probate Law and Practice Diploma I have not moved on and the area by which I live in is fast becoming a ghost town .

It takes courage and resilience to persevere and to take full responsibility for one’s own life and to steer our course of life in the right direction.

I can see my loneliness goes hand in hand with anxiety and being out of work has not helped .

[Roukaya]

Good morning I hope you are recovering from your illness.

I appreciate your reply and in the country of my Mother, it is nepotism and who you know .

Many are leaving her country to make a life in uk .

Thanks for your understanding

I hope one day to turn a corner and move forward and positive things happen if we think positively.

A long lost friend made contact which is a positive.

My neighbours no longer speak to me and I will not allow this to bring me down

I did put an advert to find a Solicitor in order to set up a Community based practice but no one responded.

Time and life are precious and I will use my time positively and after such a struggle eventually you found the right house.

With me , once I put the rental flat for sale , I will forfeit my income however, I intend to rent the flat I am living in but the income will be less, hence the necessity to find employment.

I have done my best for my Mother and I have asked Mum to join me eventually in UK.

I put aside my studies mainly because I lost my motivation but I will keep on trying and thank you for your understanding.

The weather is cold here

How are you ?

[hypercat54 in reply to Roukaya]

Lots of other good countries they could live in apart from the UK...

[Roukaya]

Good evening I hope you are ok.

I wonder what you mean by "lots of good countries they could live apart from UK."

I would like to explain I have applied to the Country of my Mother as well as for a few opportunities in Dubai but no or little response .

I am a dual national and educated in UK.

However, I will continue to try.