My pain

[Goldenwolf64]

I am too nice and let everyone stay with me it's been a few years and. They still live here and sometimes I feel they don't appreciate that they have a roof over their head a babysitter when he sleeps (which is all the time) I have their 8 year old son .I love him to death but he don't have any boundaries says what he want.he is out of control .the dad is worse he blows up for no reason. If he don't get his way or you look at this guy wrong he blows . This has been my life for 7 years now I get the cold shoulder and they still live in my house .they have a house found but I don't think I can handle 3 more months of this stressful stuff. I'm done

[HopeforMiami]

Please listen to your instincts!! I think you might be in an abusive relationship or at best, these people don't seem to care about you or appreciate you the way you deserve.Just get out and don't look back.

[hypercat54 in reply to HopeforMiami]

From what the poster is saying its their home. The last thing they should do is leave their home.

[HopeforMiami in reply to hypercat54]

I'm sorry, I mean leave the situation. Of course she should never leave her home.

[Teaching]

You've actually done enough. Seven years is a lot of time and they should be grateful. I'm glad they are planning to leave and hopefully, everything will return to normal for you.

[catsrock]

You need some serious boundaries with these people. I hope you can find a way to peace in this situation.

[bethelbee]

Give them a specific date to be out , before their 3 months when they are set to move. It affects you mentally and that is not fair to you. Yes, they sound very ungrateful for what they have had living with you. Give them a deadline.