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hi I am Jacqueline I suffer from depression and anxiety and mood swings I don’t know what to do with my dogs as they don’t seem to be very good at the house training so I have a dog door to go in and out the house and I can’t get them to use it I don’t know what to do. Jacqueline

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MadBunny profile image
MadBunny

Hello and welcome to the forum.

I' m sorry, I don't have any advice re your dogs ( only got a naughty bunny 🙂) but there are lots of dog owners on here so I'm sure someone will be able to give you some ideas.

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Cottapie20 in reply to MadBunny

Thank you for your support my name is Jacqueline I am sure you will be very pleased to hear from me

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Dolphin14

Welcome

I would imagine it's consistent training? Using treats on the other side of the door to get them to come out?

Some breeds are so stubborn. What kind of dogs do you have?

🐬

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Cottapie20 in reply to Dolphin14

I have chihuahuas but one wants attention from me all the time so she has been making her territory and she is jealous of my other dogs and I don’t know how to deal with it

in reply to Cottapie20

Hello I don't have dogs but have a demanding cat I used to watch a TV show with a dog trainer in UK is there something you can look on u tube perhaps 😊🐝

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MaggieSylvie in reply to

Barbara Woodhouse 🤗 SiTTTTT!🤣

in reply to MaggieSylvie

Hello Maggie LOL the one we like is a real nice guy can't remember name his voice is so soothing he's on this week I'll look him up later I'm just off out 💛🍯🐝

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MaggieSylvie in reply to

Hi sweetie! Hear you when yo get back. 🤗❤️

in reply to MaggieSylvie

Here he is 😁

On TV Thursday
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MaggieSylvie in reply to

Oh! I haven't seen him. I have heard of the programme but never watched it. I'm really a cat person but dogs are good.

in reply to MaggieSylvie

Yeu me too but I love dogs I know and some in park them little ones I'm afraid of yap yap yap nipp my fingers off when I go near them lol no thanks not for me I like cocker spaniels with bonny curly ears lol and pretty faces my be out has one well ex nebour she used to cuddle me hang on for ages arms flung round me, when I viewed my new house we met the couples daughters dog called honey she sat on my knee really took to me she had been neglected was a rescue but felt safe with me I loved her instantly I'll find the pic of her, I also like golden retriever labs huskys I'd like a small spaniel tho not big one 😁

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MaggieSylvie in reply to

One of my friends has a huge white husky type dog with wolf in him and whenever he sees me he gets on his hind legs and hugs and kisses me. No-one knows why he does this, and he's being discouraged, but I've met one or two dogs who think they know me. One ran down the road to me, and his owner asked whether I knew the dog, but I was only visiting. I do send out welcoming vibes to animals. "This cat won't sit on the lap of someone he doesn't know" - Yeah, just watch.

in reply to MaggieSylvie

Animal know, they have sixth sense I do too lol just getting tea 🤗

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MaggieSylvie in reply to

Course you are; it's 6 o'clock! LOL

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WaitingGame10 in reply to

Hi he's brilliant! Don't know if this is still on.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to

I found an episode. Thank you! 💜

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Dolphin14 in reply to Cottapie20

That's alot. I only had one dog so I can't imagine multiples with different personalities. It will be nice when you can get them all using the door. A bit of freedom there.

I'm looking forward to the advice from others.

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Cottapie20 in reply to Dolphin14

thanks for your reply and I’ll be happy with the answers I get from people

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Plausiblestart

Princess Moonshine

I only have a kitty.
in reply to Plausiblestart

Beautiful 🤗😸

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Starrlight

i agree with dolphin in trying giving treats from outside after they use the door

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Sweeneythyca

Hi Jacqueline Sorry to hear about your problem with your dogs.

They need to be trained to use the door door and do their business outside.

Start by bribing them outside with treats, praise them if they go outside and rewars them with treats.

If they poop in the house, remove it and put it somewhere in the garden... this will attract the others to mark their territory. Rinse and repeat, rewarding with treats if they toilet outside.

Hope that helps

Amanda

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Bekindtoyou

Stand one side of the door with the dogs the other. Open the flap and show them a treat. Call one of your dogs. When they come through the flap give them a treat. You may have to repeat this several times for them to understand but they will get it. Its like a child that's scared to open a door - you need to give them encouragement and praise.Getting cross or angry with them gives them mixed messages because they still get attention. If they mess in the home don't say anything - put them straight outside and watch them and give them lots of praise when they do their business outside.

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CLB1125

I wish I could use a dog door. I have a pitty and two cats. Two want out, one wants in, two wants, repeat all day long. And a set of stairs with each trip. I don't have a fence so any critter could travel in. I could put a collar on my dog but not the cats. So I'm the keeper of the door!🫤

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Sillysausage234 in reply to CLB1125

😄

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Nothing_but_books in reply to CLB1125

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Doubledog

I used treats on both sides to train them to use the dog door. Definitely had to be patient and it was just a fe try’s through the day. My puppy followed my other dog out and learned so that also helped. Sometimes the door mechanism or flap can scare them so it’s getting them very comfortable that it won’t hurt them. I hope they discover and can use the dog door soon!

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Cottapie20 in reply to Doubledog

Thank you so much for letting me know that i am very grateful for your reply

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MaggieSylvie

It's such horrible weather to have to be training dogs to come outside!

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kenster1

can you tease them from the other side with treats.

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Nothing_but_books

So cute!

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