Yesterday i sat through a very long meeting which left me exhausted, dejected, sad and hopeless, and i was due to go to friends for lunch, but I was running so late i gave up on the idea, mainly because I really didn't wish to go as i knew i would not be good company, especially as i have had several weeks of feeling hopelessly low, to the point of having no wish to be here, I felt like giving up on everything.
I changed into my working clothes, and made a coffee, but i must admit i was on the point of pouring myself a drink ,but i didn't, and then the doorbell went, and standing there were two friends who were also going to lunch, and they insisted I go with them, and they would bring me home, and so i quickly changed and off we went out the door.
When we arrived at the friends house, all the other people were sat at the table waiting and not one person complained or said a word, they were wonderfully kind, and there were 12 of us. We had a wonderful lunch and lovely conversations, and it restored my faith in humanity, and i felt so less alone.
It proved that there still are some good people around.
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Hello R that's great I think it shows someone up there is looking out for you us 🌈I've had times like that, I'm just heading out shopping with mam have to get bus hope you have more good friend days sending my 💛 and 🤗as always xxx
What a happy ending. I was expecting the worst. I'm glad it turned out well and brought some hope in your day. It's so fortunate you have people around you.
Today it's an interview at 3 30pm in the city centre so we have decided to take advantage and turn it into a day out!
How are the dogs and are they looking forward to their Christmas presents as Baby is!
Thankfully this is my last booked appointment until after Christmas at the earliest!
I have been feeling put out over being made to wait until 3.30pm but decided to take advantage and fill up the time with enjoyable things and also the washing got done early and is out to dry.
I hope the interview goes well, its always a nail biting time. My Yonnie and Diva are good ,and i dont buy them presents because their Christmas is everyday, although i might relent if i see a squeaky toy. ...i hope Baby enjoys the day.
I hand it to you for getting the washing done and out to dry...good on you.
Took advantage of the free time and had a lovely walk in the fresh air around Bute Park and the Taff Trail which we haven't done for a long long time and I feel lots better after doing that and we have just sat down for a late lunch and then to the interview at 3.30pm.
Hi M that's so true I've had times like that and especially the sinario and devastation with my rat infestation having to give my house up missing mam's nebours and going back then not settling bla bla then I end up with a house in the part of park I always dreamed of one day I'll take a lodger in when mam dies as it is suitable how are you we got back from.a short shopping trip I made her take her shop trolly on bus we were ok but bit stressed glad to be back she insists on buying presents for great grandchildren 🙄xx
Yes , we did a big shop today and it was so busy , we don’t have to go out again now before Xmas thankfully as it will only be worse, it’s mad, most of the shops will be open on Tuesday anyway ! How on Earth do you buy for kids these days, they seem to have everything, I’ve given up and give them all money now xx
She gets PJ's dressing gowns and now the older ones want sprays lol aftershave but don't shave type stuff there old before there time I'm resting now may need 2 proprononal if my heart doesn't settle it came in cold as door was open for pixie my head pain came over bad as filling health thing in for free health check any poss health probs will show up I couldn't access at first but it let me in I'll get ten pound too it's the health van on Morrisons car park, cholesterol blood pressure etc blood test I'll say good night I'm going under cover my fingers are like ice pixies near radiator roll on spring 🌼🙄😹xx
ooh that’s a good idea, are they going it in all Morrisons I wonder . I know I can’t cope with any extra excitement now lol , have a quiet night now xx
It’s really easy to get into that cycle of feeling low and everything being on top of you, and then not wanting to do anything , I’ve def been in that situation . You did so well to go out and have a lovely time , sounds like you have some amazing friends
There are good people out there. Of late, I've been receiving a lot of favors from people around me. It doesn't matter how little, it goes a long way to prove that you are loved. I'm glad you enjoyed your outing.
thank you for sharing your story. I know it can be tough to do things when you’re feeling down. I try to tell myself these feelings won’t last forever and tomorrow is a new day. I’m glad you went with your friends and you are thankful for that experience. I often feel similarly and after I make myself do something, it helps me feel grateful and in turn makes things a little easier to handle. I hope you continue to find the small pleasures and know that this community is here for you if you need to talk.
So glad you had that enjoyable experience. I have been in a funk for the last few weeks and it has been really hard for me to accomplish anything, especially work. My sister had just texted me about 10 minutes before i saw your post to meet her for lunch. I declined. After reading your post, maybe i should reconsider.
I'm so pleased your day turned out to be an upbeat moment for you, especially when I started to read the first bit of your post, these are the unexpected moments that give us the boost we need, and especially when you were perhaps feeling down already. It's just the kindness of others gives us the reminders to think we are not alone, and people are thinking about you, I'm so glad you went and enjoyed the day, good will to all mankind, and tis the season to be jolly, maybe that's going overboard, but you get the idea, wishing all the best at this time of year 😊
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