I'm tired and exhausted today. But I'm proud that I've made it through almost 50 years of life. I'm proud I made it through my darkest times in my late-teens and early-twenties. I'm proud I left an awful marriage at 40. I'm proud to have raised and supported 2 beautiful children as a single mother. I'm proud and determined to make it through another day.
What are you proud of?
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You have a beautiful list there. I'm proud of all you have done. Great job getting back on your feet.
I'm proud of my career as a nurse. I'm proud of my family. I'm proud of my determination to survive on my own from a young age. I'm proud of my independence and my strength.
There are more but I do want to say im very proud of being able to write this list. It's not easy for those of us struggling with mental health issues to say positive things about ourselves.
Hi silly sausage good to see you around hope you are keeping well two week on and im still having problems with my headaches im not going out of the house afraid of having another accident ! Take care my friend david
Fell off a big horse in the middle of nowhere and managed to get back in the saddle with no help. Had to cuz no one was around. Changed out a blinker light on my car all by myself. Fixed my record player’s turntable with no help. 💪🏼As a hairdresser, I taught a guy how to use a curling iron and hairspray. He was very appreciative. I didn’t lie to the FBI and never lied under oath. 😇I let a friend visit with his two very large hybrid wolves in my living room and stood my ground. 😬Dated a policeman, went target practicing and shot better than he did. (I apologized. 🤭) At Christmas’s, I only once got up during the night and peeked in a package. True Dat ✌️
I was showing off once ,never been on on a horse in my life but asked fair lady damsel / crush could I ride hers ….she got off handed me the reins …as I went to mount it said horse bolted and my foot got stuck in the stirrup….it dragged me about 25 metres 😄
I’m proud of still fighting the fight. I’m proud of my children. They both battle the same demons as their mom. I’m proud of the years I took care of my mom. I’m proud of having a kind heart and wanting to help everyone. Something my children have learned. It makes me so proud when I see them helping others. My daughter in fact works for the state DHS office. She interviews people for qualification. She has a title but damned if I can remember it. 😝 If we think about it there is always something to be proud of.
There are many tiny things we can be proud of. Being alive, being in love, talking with you, going to a supermarket and not be afraid to speak to the cashier, giving a phone call, meeting my therapist.
This all is important to take note of, because this is what we can and must be proud of !
Thank you for sharing, I too raised two kids as a single father and my daughter left last year. It was definitely a struggle but I also made it and im proud of it, just hit 50 and now I just have to figure out what to do in my next chapter. I catered to my kids and after they left its like a shut down on the computer, now I just have to restart it and get my brain reprogrammed to take care of me now. My son hasn't talked to me in 4 years and my daughter calls when she feels like it. It has been challenging and living alone doesn't help, memories all around. One day at a time
I'll be entering that next chapter too. You and I are actually young empty nesters, so I do feel like I'm trying to figure out what is next for me. My friends won't be done with their kids until their 60's, and I'm honestly glad I have years to myself now than when I was too young to appreciate them.
Not proud, but glad i made it through the loss of my soulmate, its still a maelstrom of emotions of should've, could've, would've...but slowly getting there.
This reminds me of interesting nurse story. A priest actually helped me through a very dark time in my life. During that time, I went into pre-mature labor, and the nurse that comforted me look exactly like the priest. I thought I was losing my mind 🤣.
There are some helpful tips on YouTube for sure. I replaced my toilet valve, replaced a light switch, sealed my driveway crack, restored my deck, patched up drywall, painted a room, all from watching YouTube. I try my best to save money for things I can't do, like getting the roof replaced.
I'm proud of my two sons. They are both working professionals, and don't have to rely on us for financial support. They are both compassionate, polite and caring people. My son who has a daughter is a great dad!
I love your list thank you for sharing 😀....I am proud that I have made it through 43 years of life. I am proud that I have raised my 2 children as a single mother. I am proud that I survived through over 20 years of darkness and tough times. I am proud of myself for finally deciding to seek counseling to aid me in my journey toward healing and dealing with my anxiety disorder. I am proud of myself for stepping out of my comfort zone, and finally doing things for myself without feeling guilty. I am also proud and determined to make it through another day because some days are definitely harder than others.
We have very similar lists! You're almost my mental health doppelganger.
Great post and interesting to read the other replies.
I'm very proud of my wonderful son & daughter now in their 30s and very thankful they have turned out a whole lot better than me - it's all I could have wished for!
it’s amazing how our children thrive in spite of us! LolI struggle with this a lot. My son is on the autism spectrum somewhere. Could never get a doctor to diagnose him when he was little. He was bullied awful in school. He is ADHD. I worry about him. I am his safe place. I wonder how is going to manage when Im gone. My therapist tells me I am more or less imagining the worst. I am not giving him credit for what he has done on his own. She has a point. He’s 42 and owns a home a good truck and a good job. He was married for a year and it didn’t work out. I worry he will always be alone but I have to let it be. My therapist said I can’t expect more for him than he wants for himself. Those words made a lot of sense to me. My husband says we raised them and give them the tools they need to live. It’s now up to them to use them. You he's an ass most of the time but he’s pretty smart! 😝 here I am hogging up the post. 😊
He is. He has struggled since day one but he keeps going. He lives on his terms and if anybody doesn’t like it too bad. He doesn’t say it so nicely! 😱 He drives log truck just like my dad did and that makes me so proud. It was my dream to drive one but back then girls didn’t do that kind of stuff. Then life happened. He tells me I would be too dangerous because I get road rage driving a cart in Walmart! 😂
Truthfully, therapy and medication helped the most. Then, building my spiritual strength. Also, releasing stress through physical activity like swimming, hiking, and walking.
Sometimes it takes time. Sometimes it takes a different therapist. Just keep on the healing journey. One day you'll look back and see the incredible road you've taken!
That was really good to read.I don't feel proud of anything right now. Which I know is not rational. And yet I can't seem to shake it. I'm grateful and proud I guess to have survived a lot of those things too. I just want to hang on today.
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