Ghosting

[No_Longer_Human]

They always say stuff like "i see my future with you" and then "profile unavailable".

[Dolphin14]

NLH

Are you referring to members on here? Maybe their profile became unavailable because they were removed?

❤️🐬

[No_Longer_Human in reply to Dolphin14]

Not here

[Dolphin14 in reply to No_Longer_Human]

Just wanted to check as we've had some issues in the past.

Ghosting seems to be quite common. It's happened to me before and it's hurtful. It would be great if there was some type of courtesy message of explanation but I guess that would be expecting too much.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Being treated this way certainly doesn't help our feelings of self worth

[No_Longer_Human in reply to Dolphin14]

Thank you. I woke up nauseous again. I don't even know which one of my traumas it is. And im not so hurt by the ghosting but the way they act before ghosting. Don't promise me forever if you will be nowhere to be found tomorrow.

[Dolphin14 in reply to No_Longer_Human]

I'm very sorry you aren't feeling well. I hope you feel better soon.

I agree, when you make an established friendship then ghosting makes no sense at all. It's hurtful

[No_Longer_Human in reply to Dolphin14]

Yeah like why do you bond with me on the first place? And he was Australian, a good place to go if ww3 breaks out because i feel like it will. All the signs lead there

[Dolphin14 in reply to No_Longer_Human]

It's definitely an unsettled world for sure.

[No_Longer_Human in reply to Dolphin14]

Me and my family, which is not even a family anymore, is struggling so much already. A war in the region would ruin us economically, psychologically and more. I still can't recover from 2020

[Dolphin14 in reply to No_Longer_Human]

I hope this doesn't happen.

I'm trying to hang on to hope for everyone. It may be unrealistic but it's the only way I can survive the changes going on

[No_Longer_Human in reply to Dolphin14]

I haven't lived, im just surviving. Now even this will be impossible. My youth is wasted. My stomach is burning and my brain is torn from ptsd

[Dolphin14 in reply to No_Longer_Human]

I have PTSD as well. Living a robotic life and just surviving was something I did for many years. I do understand

Please don't lose hope