Here is an update. She is still halfway mad at me and is being petty.

[FoxTrap]

As yall know she got mad at me because I chose to spend the week with my son instead of her.Well we took my son to the state fair and had a great time. Well this weekend he went to spend the weekend with his mawmaw and she and I went to a concert at the fair. She stayed the night.

Remember that, because it will come back to play in a moment.

So the next morning she left and went back home. I am writing this on a Monday BTW.

Well, I tried to get her to come back today and spend the day and night with me. She made excuses as to why she couldn't. So I talked to her about an hour ago and asked her to come spend Tuesday night and Wednesday night with me because she was going to the doctor all day Thursday and I'll be with my son Friday. To which she said no and made excuses, one of which is that she would rather spend the time with her dogs.

So I told her this, that the next time my son gets to come spend time with me or a week with me that she had better not cop an attitude like she did last time because she could have came and spent all week with me if she wanted to.

To which she replied, that's exactly why I'm not coming to stay. Because you chose him to stay with you instead of me.

Now why did she stay Saturday night then? Because she is being petty I think. That's why.

After she said that I just changed the subject.

But I can tell you this, I'll never, ever, ask her to come back over here or to stay the night.

What is y'alls thoughts on this?

[Agora1]

Fox Trap, I think she may be a little spoiled as it's either her way or no way.

It is a shame when relationships get messy because of a child who so deserves

the attention and love of a parent. It's a true learning experience for you. xx

[Focusedmind]

I think she is trying to make you choose between your son and her, which is a no-win situation. Your son should always come first; as an adult, she should not compete with your child. If she is this insecure, I think perhaps she is not the right person for a long-term relationship with you. You shouldn't have to give up your son to be with her. When she entered the relationship, she knew you had a child and should have accepted him as part of your family.

[Midori]

She is flying all the red flags; Can't you see them? She wants you to spend all your money on her, none on yourself.

She wants All your attention, All of the time, and she's not prepared to share you even with your own son.

I hate to say this, but I feel things will not get any better. I feel she isn't the one for you.

Cheers, Midori

[Midori]

Good thinking, because I believe she acts like an entitled princess, wanting all of your attention all of the time.; first your camera, then your son.

it's not a good sign for future happiness, IMO,

Cheers, Midori