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I had a panic attack come on quite suddenly and it was intense. I started to feel overwhelmed, just way too much at once, and living in a little village I am blessed to be able to call the local cops to come chat (or EMS if it comes to it). We have a new police chief so the officer that came to speak to me brought the chief to say hi. He's introducing me, this is (my name), he gets panic attacks and is agoraphobic but sometimes you'll see him wandering the graveyard at night (I live next to a cemetery), it's perfectly okay he has permission, and isn't an issue. I found this hilarious, imagine being introduced to someone as "that person who wanders around the graveyard at night, don't worry about them, it's "normal"" πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I greatly appreciate the awesome locals and how much they help, but this keeps popping into my head and making me laugh, so I had to share 😁

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IncognitoC

That’s awesome that your local emergency services are doing something that most areas would not.

I was told today that I need to inform my best friend about my panic attacks so that he can console me as and when I need him.

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EndUser13β€’ in reply toIncognitoC

Who informed you to talk to your friend? I think it's a good idea but sometimes people don't have nice, patient folk to listen to them, or maybe they don't really know what to do. There is a mental health hotline here in the US (finally) but you can never be sure about how much someone might help.

I'm blessed in this, I think it's just a part of living in a small community in the middle of nowhere, people are kinder and rely on one another more.

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IncognitoCβ€’ in reply toEndUser13

I have a wellness practitioner who I see once a week, after mentioning to him that I had a bad anxiety attack and described it he told me it was a panic attack and gave me this advice

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EndUser13β€’ in reply toIncognitoC

A belated welcome to the forum, I hope you can get something out of the great people here. I think things like anxiety are easier to discuss with someone who knows where you are coming from. While I've never been to war, I can discuss my PTSD with some of my combat vet friends and vice versa, because in a way we see where each other is coming from, we just understand something most don't. I wish you luck in finding good relationships where support is mutual. Those relationships are worth their weight in gold!

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IncognitoCβ€’ in reply toEndUser13

Thank you for your kind words

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mizzou7016β€’ in reply toIncognitoC

I am real selective about who i talk with about my anxiety, depression, and stress...Not everyone can overlook the stigma of mental health issues....that being said....my circle is small enough....and has been around me long enough to ask the right questions at the right times...this is something that I struggle with

such a great post It is important to share stories like this - so grateful - hope you will get help like this whenever you need - please update us whenever you can

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It made me laugh, and yeah we can't focus on the negative alone.

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LifeIsThePitts

I have another TRD friend that spends a lot of time in his local πŸͺ¦ graveyard for solice and peace. I'm glad to see you're on the other side of the panic attack and laughing about the interaction. Such a comfort to know that the local authorities have your back and not the other way around! You're lucky to have that lovely support in your small community. Being in a large metropolitan area takes that "first name basis" out of the scenario.

Happy you're feeling better, my friend!πŸ«‚β£οΈ

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EndUser13β€’ in reply toLifeIsThePitts

Thanks! I hear you, I grew up near DC and most of the cops were jerks. People tended to keep to themselves. This is common in cities, it makes you wonder if Dunbar's number of people having a limit of 150 relationships has some merit to it.

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SayNOtoPanic

You def made me laugh. Thx for sharing this. So cool too that you have a small community like that. I’m glad you can reach them for support that way and they reciprocate. Hope you’re feeling better now. Hugs and prayers.

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AnxiousSilver

Very cool that he seems to (or at least trying to) understand. :)

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Cavalierrubie

OMG. At least you are being looked after at night. What a weird thing to do. It would give me the creeps to walk around a graveyard at night πŸ˜©πŸ˜«πŸ‘ΏπŸ‘ΉπŸ‘½β˜ οΈπŸ’€

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EndUser13β€’ in reply toCavalierrubie

πŸ˜‚ It's peaceful! Maybe I just appreciate the creepy a lil' more in life 😁

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Cavalierrubieβ€’ in reply toEndUser13

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Can’t get more peaceful than that. Xxx

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designguy

What an awesome story and great response and attitude from your local authorities, thanks for sharing. Now you need to change your user name - LOL!

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EndUser13β€’ in reply todesignguy

Necropanic? πŸ˜…

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designguyβ€’ in reply toEndUser13

πŸ˜‚

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mizzou7016

This made me smile.....As a corrections officer of 26 years and counting...i get the same response when i say that i'm going to prison or just leaving prison for the day...people that know me understand me when I say it....some people just react like i just ended their world....you did what?? it's strange how people can find peace in the not so obvious places

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mizzou7016

and I hate the world normal....the question I always ask when that word comes up is what is the definition of normal for today....can't help but laugh.....normal is so different for each different personality....

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JaaKK

Good afternoon,

This is actually a great thing for you and your depression! When you start to feel depressed, you can use this to remember back on! :)

Have a great a wonderful day and God bless you!

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