Living with my ex wife 🤪

[TimDoggyDog]

I own the house and are letting her stay until she gets a place. It's been 6 months now & she wants to bring guys over. I told her no. I'm I wrong to not want this?

[Sillysausage234]

How do you feel is the question tim

[TimDoggyDog in reply to Sillysausage234]

I don't like it. I would be extremely jealous.

[Sillysausage234 in reply to TimDoggyDog]

I think most people would …my uncle and auntie divorced and stayed living in the same house,she remarried and they’re all good mates ….always found that odd …maybe tell her you still feel that emotion for her …might rekindle that loving feeling

[LifeIsThePitts]

I think you've answered your own question just by posting it. You've already gone beyond what I'd say is a normal extension of the 🫒 olive branch at the conclusion of your marriage. If she's got time to date and start new relationships, she's got time to find a new place to live. She's overstepping your generosity and I don't think it is a healthy arrangement for either of you. I'm a female and I think she's taking advantage of the situation.

You're not wrong...

[Tahiri]

I would never consider that, She can meet new partners in their homes. It would make you feel used, and that your relationship previously had been meaningless. I’m female and feel it shows a huge lack of respect for you. She should look for a place on her own,and allow you both to move on. Best wishes.

[Midori]

Your wife appears to want to make you jealous, but wanting to bring men back to your home is beyond reasonable.

You have already told her she can stay until she gets a new place sorted out, but it seems she is now taking advantage of your goodwill.

I suggest that you ask her how her house/apartment searching is going, and remind her that you don't have endless patience. Six months is plenty long enough. I don't think she's trying very hard. Perhaps give her a date to leave by?

Cheers, Midori