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Hello, just introducing myself. I'm new here. I've been reading posts for a couple of weeks but too scared to post because I have low self esteem and feel dumb. I suffer from bipolar, mdd, anxiety, emetophobia, and agoraphobia to mention a few. I haven't left my house since January so, that's what I'm working on currently. Thanks to everyone here for being honest and brave posting.

Feeling anxious today for some reason.

Have a good day everyone!

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Marysblue

Welcome.. so glad you got up nerve to post. My heart goes out to you, you are dealing with a lot. As many of us are. No judgments here. Hope you have a good day.

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BusterMovers

hi Swilly79 welcome to our safe place 😊

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Starrlight

Welcome! I love your cat pics. I am also having one of those anxious days. Good job on posting.

in reply to Starrlight

Thank you for your comment about my cat pics😃 my cat, Gia, is the love of my life ❤️

Gia, my love
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Starrlight in reply to

Awwwww beautiful… I’ll show you my Coco …

Coco napping
in reply to Starrlight

Omg I'm in love ❤️ so beautiful!

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Starrlight in reply to

😆 thank you Swilly!

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

Coco 💜💜

Thank you so much! 💓 I like it here, it is as you say-a safe place. 🙂

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AnxiousSilver

"Hello, just introducing myself. I'm new here. "

Welcome. :)

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"I have low self esteem and feel dumb."

You may feel dumb, but you're not dumb.

You are trying to help yourself out, and this is a safe and supportive community.

in reply to AnxiousSilver

Awww thank you! This all helps.

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Stippler

Welcome to the group! Reaching out is a great first step. Please share what you are comfortable with, and you should get many replies. Sending peace and positive energy. 🙏🙏🙏

in reply to Stippler

Thank you so much! I seem to feel better after sharing. 🤗

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OtOFrance

Hello Hidden

You are the most welcome here. We all have problems and conditions and you can be sure that, whatever yours is, you will neither be judged or evaluated thru it.

This community is open-minded and accepts differences and difficulties, as it is built on them.

Have a happy and helpful journey amongst us !

Love from France

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in reply to OtOFrance

Thank you so much for the support, it helps! 🫂

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bethelbee

Welcome to the community and kudos for writing your first post! As others said share what you feel comfortable sharing. We all have issues we've been dealing with, some a short while, some for decades. Hope you receive the support you are seeking and begin to feel better.

in reply to bethelbee

Thank you so much, you're helpful 😊

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Tara52

Welcome, so glad you joined us. I understand your feelings of feeling dumb. I always felt that way even after obtaining my nursing degree. My father told me I wasn't smart enough to go to college and become a nurse. Even though eventually after alot of encouragement from a therapist I did obtain my RN license. However it always stuck with me that I wasn't smart. I also still have fear about posting. I have had so much judgment against me during my life especially these last 5 years after my boyfriend committed suicide, that I still fear being judged. The harsh judgment hasn't come from this community but the one I live in here at home. It took a year before I could leave my house. So I understand a little what you are going through. Just give it time here you don't have to share your deepest darkest secrets. I think you can learn alot just by reading the posts Iike you have been. 🤗 Hugs!

in reply to Tara52

Thank you so much, that gives me hope. Much appreciated 🙏

in reply to Tara52

Btw, you're so not dumb. Being a nurse is extraordinary!

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Tara52 in reply to

You are so kind. I have to resist those thoughts !😀 You are smart also.👍

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Tara52

You made it through anatomy you ain't dumb. Jus' sayin'. Just because someone says something, it don't make it true. In my experience, the nastier the comment is, the less likely it's about anything good for you.

Glad you joined. It took me a while before deciding to post a comment too. Now I am comfortable doing it.

Please reach out whenever you feel you want to. Good people here.

in reply to Thankfulforhelp22

Thank you so much 🫂

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Teaching

You are safe here... Glad you summoned courage to post. Take it one day at a time.

in reply to Teaching

That I will do. Thank you 😊

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🫂

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catsrock

Welcome to the group! I'm glad you posted. This is a very safe space and I hope it helps to come here. I hope you have a good day too.

in reply to catsrock

Thank you so much, I appreciate it very much. And, you also have a good day 😀- so far so good here. I have a cold but I'm doing ok. 👍🏻

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designguy

Hello and welcome, glad you had the courage to post, i'm sure you will find it helpful and supportive here.

in reply to designguy

Thank you 😊

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Dichotomous

Hi Swilly79, Welcome to the forum. We all have our ups and downs, some days things are particularly bad. Take some time off, if you could, just rest and be at peace. Avoiding crowds can help but keep company of things or people who love like your books, pets or family. Sometimes, learning something new like drawing or a new language also helps to focus and overcome one's fears.

Best wishes and happiness to you.

in reply to Dichotomous

This is helpful, thank you 💙

Thank you 😊

Hi Swilly,

This is my baby. She likes to scream, have me be her food-tester, likes to destroy paper, and decorates the house with bananas.

Green-cheeked Parakeet
in reply to Nothing_but_books

Lol and, I'm in love! She's beautiful! Thank you for sharing 🙂💝😍

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Nothing_but_books in reply to

You're welcome. I hope I see and learn more of Gia. She's special.

in reply to Nothing_but_books

Thank you, she's currently sick. We hope its just from antibiotics from the vet.😫

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Nothing_but_books in reply to

I'm sorry she's not well. I hope you'll keep us updated.

in reply to Nothing_but_books

Thank you! I will. She seems a little better today. Fingers crossed 🤞

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Trainchaser

Welcome

in reply to Trainchaser

Thank you 😊

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LifeIsThePitts

You are welcome here... it's a safe place with many supportive members. So happy for you're getting comfortable with everything. Keep posting and engaging and you'll fit right in. Welcome to your new extended family 💕😄

in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Thank you so much LifeIsThePitts ! I appreciate it! I definitely like it here. 🙂🤗

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