You have too.

[gerrerd]

Self love.

[Lali2018]

Beautiful 💕 Thanks dear friend 💕

[gerrerd in reply to Lali2018]

Your welcome 💖🤗

[primrose81]

Trying hard here…

[Hidden]

There is so much I can say here (all good). These words are good for me to hear. Because of the abuse I've endured, and my brothers who said those things that really hurt me without knowing the whole story first (and to be fair, I didn't know the full story at first either; I was just focused on my mistake and how I was a bad person because of it. I think they picked up on this and that's why they joined in without really meaning to), about how I take in things WAY too easily, about how I'm trying really hard to toughen myself up so that I don't let things get to me, about how I am hurting myself by staying in this extreme rage at what this person did and said to me, about how I'm angry at myself for allowing myself to be duped by a person who pretended to care for me when it's now been made so apparent that it was never genuine (the first thing my therapist told me about narcissists is that it isn't love with a capital L), about how I collapsed into my husband's arms over Christmas and kept saying (through tears) "what's wrong with her? why isn't she normal? I want her to be normal", about how I care too dang much for who I now know is a narcissist and is not able to care about herself, about the injustice and utter surrealness of it all, about the nightmares I've had this month that cause me to spiral to an extremely dark place, etc.

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for the reply, Im dealing with one at the moment its easy to get fooled.

[Hidden in reply to gerrerd]

So sorry it hear that. Yeah, they're something else alright. Stay safe!