People judge without knowing the pain

[Against_the_current]

My mom called because i'm sick. But instead of checking up on me and giving me advice and even reassurance and care, she started complaining, being negative, manipulate, repeating herself. And then i Wonder why people call me too negative and repeating myself

[pamb67]

I understand where you coming from totally and it's not my place to tell you what you should do but I do think you need to distance yourself from anyone who isn't serving you well and bringing you down is not good for your mental health. You need to start thinking of you and caring for yourself and loving you 💜💕💜💕u will then feel better

[Against_the_current in reply to pamb67]

Thanks 💜💕 It's hard, they're my parents, im dependant on them, i don't want to hurt them

[pamb67 in reply to Against_the_current]

I understand 💕💜💕

[Hidden]

Same

[Against_the_current in reply to Hidden]

I'm sorry

[Hidden in reply to Against_the_current]

Thank you

[Against_the_current in reply to Hidden]

Always

[Hidden in reply to Against_the_current]

🌻🌻🌻

[TrustYourSoul]

Could you have just said, "Mom, I am sick and you're making it worse. When I feel better, I will call you back." Then hang up the phone.

[Against_the_current in reply to TrustYourSoul]

She would go crazy. Like "but i worry about you" and "i make it worse?!" and somethimes i need her meds advice