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Never Judge, we dont know the struggles people, Have endured.

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Never look down on another human being. We are all equal in our own way. ❤️

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Back in April on one of the other boards I got ever so upset when one of the other posters claimed that I had brought being evicted on myself when no I hadn't it was one of those situations that was beyond my control.

If I had done something deliberate to have got evicted then that would have been a fair comment and I wouldn't have got upset over it!

The reason she had felt I had brought being evicted on myself was because I go to swimming a few times a week and talked openly about interests and in her view it wasn't fair that I had things to look forward to as those things in her view were luxuries and again its not fair!

She made herself sound like a 6 year old with those complaints and paradoxically being angry and bitter like that the person she hurts most is herself although I was upset at the time as that was a horrible thing to have gone through!

I'm glad I'm not angry and bitter like that though!

Yesterday I went to swimming and called in at a cafe that I hadn't been to since just before I moved back in May and it was like something was missing as the stress of all that has gone now!

My old place just to let you know has been turned into an air b and b place like I had suspected would happen and they are charging £350 for a stay there for a few nights!

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We all need something to relax us like swimming, it wasnt your fault it was the capitalist society we have to endure . Well done for coming threw it.

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Swimming is extremely good for you isn't it?

Today I enjoyed a day out in Cardiff Bay at the 999 open day there where the fire brigade did some rescue demonstrations which I enjoyed watching!

Point is in life lots of situations come up that are beyond our control and that was one of them when I got evicted when I had done nothing wrong!

Thank you G, Good one. My mind has been caught in a loop of cynical thinking this past week. My patience is running low with people I may never understand. Impossible to know what they are going through so I should NOT judge. Skepticism took over. I can do better. I needed this reminder. Perfect timing on this one.

Will check online later and see how Bury’s doing. ❤️

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Loosing 1.0 from 1 st minute, Equalized 88 mins. cr 3,700. it is non league, I have to keep reminding myself the players are amateurs and have jobs during the week. Its going to be a long journey back to the league. The joys of supporting your team. ❤️

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So do they get paid to play or no? And how do they get back into the league? I admire them for working regular jobs yet still chasing their dreams.

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They get a match fee if they play, they train 2 times a week in the evenings, we have to progress through 6 leagues to get back to the league. x

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Six leagues?! That sounds like a lot. So this could take maybe a hundred years? Just kidding… I’ll keep the faith with you. :)

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At least we have the team back and the ground, The kids can start to enjoy football again in the town. 👍

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