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Hi, I'm justing tired of it all. I was in an car accident June 5th the guy totalled our cars and yes he was at fault. I have been out of work since June due to back issue and no car his insurance company lowballing smh. I am so aggravated and depressed I'm injured and they trying to be slick etc. Another situation that causes more depression anxiety etc

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Hb2003

I am so sorry about that lots of hugs and support 🫂❤️❤️

in reply to Hb2003

Thank u

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Hb2003 in reply to

your welcome 🙏

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Celtic27

Hello dark and lovely sorry to hear of your accident the insurance companies will always low ball you but stick to you guns if you've got a good lawyer you should be alright it's his job to get you a settlement that fits with the damage to you car and also to cover the loss of wages and any other losses you may have had ! I wish you well and hope you get a good settlement !

Hi they paid for the car already it's the injury part they stalling on, it is crazy and they didn't even offer enough to cover the medical bills smh. I'm with a great law firm I'm just ready to give up

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Trapped123

I'm sorry you've had to go through all this! Hang in there. Keep telling yourself you're worth it and you're going to get through this. Life definitely sucks sometimes!

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AnxiousSilver

Hi Darknlovely,

I don't know if you remember me from us talking a few months ago, but you and your story has always remained in the back of my head.

My father, who went through 4 major surgeries over the past year, and is still dealing with a lot of physical pain, had this triggered by a major car accident that wasn't his fault. (that's a long story for another day, and this is about "you")

But on some level, "I get it" because I am still trying to help him out.

.

I hope that things eventually work out for you.

I too was a a bad wreck back in a little over a decade ago, that shook my world up mentally. (I already shared that story with you, and how I got over it)

But.. No matter what, I am here, and I am rooting for you. :)

in reply to AnxiousSilver

Hi, I remember your story and I'm gonna do what u suggested when I buy another car. I'm just waiting on my case to settle but I'm really not interested in buying another 1 but I need it as long as I'm still in Ga. I don't know why some people think a car accident isn't a bad deal for some. I still have back pain and is paranoid when I'm in a car. Stressed in Ga

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I understand, and I get it. (heck the person that hit my father's car was uninsured)

I get the money side, along with the physical and emotional pain.

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Here.. I drive around in a 2003 beater car, I don't need anything special, just basic (and hopefully) reliable transportation.

& I am hoping to get one more Chicago Winter out of it, since I don't have the option to park it in a garage. (and it's kinda breaking down)

But.. I also know the stress of when a car doesn't work or when it's not available. I get it.

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*Again* Your story is always in the back of my mind, and I hope that things get better for you soon. :)

in reply to AnxiousSilver

I feel u and I don't want a fancy car due to the alarming carjacking rate etc. It's sad when we have to live in fear of crime , bad health etc . Always something but hey we just here til we die right:)

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"I feel u and I don't want a fancy car due to the alarming carjacking rate etc. It's sad when we have to live in fear of crime , bad health etc ."

For me, that car was sideswiped by my neighbors twice.

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"Always something but hey we just here til we die right:)"

True, but I also believe that there is "something" after this. :)

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