Shock. My roommates kicked me out

[Against_the_current]

Dad told me to move out, i said I don't want to. He said I have no choice. My roommate called him and told him that i should leave. The contract isn't between me and landlords, it's between dad and her. She didn't even told me in the eyes "leave". Called my father. Humiliated me. They do parties, bring boyfriends, bring dogs... And im the bad guy? Didn't even tell me why i am kicked out. Was i so terrible? Do htey want someone else? What is going on? They aren't here. Alert If they come to hide ilke a cockroach. I have agoraphobia and anxiety. How to find a new place to live and get used to it. I want to live alone but dad doesn't want to give so much money.

Edit : I feel guilty for crying at the car

I feel guilt towards mom and dad

[Genuineguy]

It doesnt sound like your the bad guy especially if they can't tell you to your face. It sounds cowardly. It reminds me when I used to work for a chicken restaurant called Nando's. I worked really hard but was very quiet. I went on a work trip with them and it was all about drinking alcohol and flirting with one another. I was about 19 and very shy. I enjoyed the bucking bronco there but hated getting involved with the drinking etc. Shortly after the manager fired me for 'not fitting in'. To be honest I guess I didn't fit in.

[Against_the_current in reply to Genuineguy]

Same

[Genuineguy]

Maybe you can see it as a blessing. At least you don't have to put up with all the noise and parties there any more.

[Against_the_current in reply to Genuineguy]

Thanks. Rn trying to find a solo place but it's so expensive

[Raggedy-Ann]

Maybe it's an age thing. How old are you and how old were your room mates?

[Against_the_current in reply to Raggedy-Ann]

I'm 22, they are 25 and 20

[Raggedy-Ann]

Are you able to work maybe part time and then your father can help too and you could have your own place. Or, look for a different room mate situation or maybe student housing. I really think you should consider seeing a doctor-psychiatrist. Try group therapy or individual. You seem so unhappy.

[Against_the_current in reply to Raggedy-Ann]

I'm at therapy and am on meds. My therapist keeps in touch with my psychiatrist and he doesn't want me to change the meds. He says my environtment is hectic and unsafe and i can't repair this with chemistry, and to keep taking my regular meds. I loved group therapy but it was cancelled unfortunately. I am unhappy fr. I thought about student housing but im graduating and it won't be stable. I sujested dad i start some work so i help paying the accomodation i want, he said it's not worth it, it's not worth that much money and i am a graduate and i should focus on studying. But how can i

[Raggedy-Ann in reply to Against_the_current]

Ok Graduating is the number one thing you need to make sure you do. Don't throw away all of those years of work, studying, passing impossible exams, learning.

[SoporRose]

Wow. That is a shock. And it was underhanded of your roommate to call your father. I m so sorry this has happened and so close to your graduating, too!

[JellyBean1234]

Maybe she called him & he saw through it & wants you to leave for your sake and not hers. Just throwing that possibility out there. Hugs!!

Also, section 8 is MUCH easier to get on these days & they have built/are building much nicer places in less crime ridden areas. I would definitely look into it. 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[Midori]

It's not your fault that the accusers can't face you and tell you what is wrong; it's them feeling they can't confront you. Why isn't really the issue.

That place is obviously not right for you.

Cheers, Midori

[Against_the_current]

Thanks all