safety words

best to plan ahead and make sure u have code words that mean im ok and im in danger..........

innocnt so taht only u two can know...........

also .........think all women should wear an silent alarm necklace.........realling meaning if i win the lotto however unlikely...........id make them availalble free of service.......

make sure they all have safety plans and safe houses.......or plans.........if in trouble whre is the hopsital where is the libary go to a restaurant and ask for help or grocery store........have a plan..........

thats my two cents......

[Agora1]

You know what Brig?? This post couldn't have come at a better time

for my daughter and I. Thank you for posting it. She has been in a state of

fear by an obsessive bf who comes unannounced to her apartment. He's broken

down doors to get in. I was just thinking tonight, that we need to have a safe word

when I call her in making sure she is okay.

This is a great awakening for all women to have a safety plan as well as a plan B

in where to go when threatened. Thanks my friend for your input xx

[Hidden in reply to Agora1]

thank uuu not trying to scare peop;le ...that was my worry but.........we can not .........have tragedies..........we cant every get them back........we cant have anyhone ever be traumatized........ever..........thank u for for taking it right.............i personally would make sure i built a safe room and made sure no one can get it..........period..... peace of mne is being perpared

[Hidden in reply to Agora1]

u ARE soooooooooooooooo welcome .........situation sound very red flag major alarms gong off in my head.........i dont go near trouble or split hairs...........his behavior is unacceptable...........outragous.............and should get a restraintig order with tteeth...........zero tolerance on safety.............i have house rules and they are followed and erson sarety is followed or iv kicked people out before.............learned the hard way...........no means no ..........all ways.............

[Damon1864]

I think this is a brilliant idea thank you for posting. Have a good day and take care 😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxxxx 🌻🌻

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thank uuuuuuuuu for takig it the right way..........thank u thank u thank u........

[Hidden]

did i ever tell u how much i enjoy buying emergcy whisles......at walmart one dollar in the camping area............real easy ..........to blow...........reallllllllllllllllll loud and boat air horns.............oh.........those are lllllllllllllooooooooooooooooooooooots of fun.........reaaaalllllllllllllllllll loouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuud............and reallly

really bright birght flashlights..............careful might blind an attacker...........

oh and real old fashioned heavy wooden tennis rackets?? cheap at pawn stores........very easy to use in ones daly workout world.........get lots of lots fo practice and arm development...........practice swinging .........u know............practie alone lots cheaper than the actual lessons..............ohh practice practice practice...........loooooove them heavy rackets...........cast iron skillets and rolling pins.............still great house warming ***** gifts...................know......................what ..............i mean?????????????

oh happy..........................daze.................oh happy DAZE...................course.............boiling water..................for tea.......................stilllllllllll...................works............................ooooooooooo sooooooooooooooooooo sorry i spilled..........................(run lke hell))))).........oh sooooooooooooooooo sorrryyyyyyyyyyyyyy..........................

im a really nice guy................cept on safety.............then the green ogre of ogre of ogre........comes out................not on my watch ..........pal............i may not be fast..........but i make one hell of a great wall...........

[Midori]

Really brilliant idea, Brig!

Cheers, Midori