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As director and head instructor and professor of equiestrian studies...i told all students all ages........how to earn recomemndations they will ask me to write for jobs when they graduate....u have to play the game......help out be seen be useful in any way......

we had horse shows....sure enought the poor kids the orphan kids....without finaicnces showed up.......sharpened pencils, scoreing, runing in ribbons, getting water for judges....picking up dressage judges score sheets.....whatever.....

the social butterflies who came to lessons....jumped one tiny and jump and rather than watching....sat there yaking and talkng away ....and gossiping....and and

one jump and ur an expert huh....? says i to myself.........one dribble of the basket bal and ur ready for the varsity team huh...

the other kids ...and almost always....the kid wth the worst horse......did exactly what i said

relentless practice priactice on low fences (spare the horse) ...

and.....hitches a ride to come to auditions.........v hot snot mega buck hot shit rider....

guess who.....gets the recommendations to all the connections and all the ...

man......u have my personal word.....that this person will work their tail off and they may not be rich or glamorous but this person.......u will call me back in six months and say ....where can i get ten more of him or her....

shy, acward, scared , meek...stammering in the audition....see....Dr. T ...i dont hafe an y formal jumping education and my dad got me a ride as he had to ship out.....this is his grandfathers old saddle ....i restored........

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guess who.....gets the glowing recomendations, and p;rivate lessons....and all the endorsement from the old grump and long winded himself.........cuz u volunteered...

which shows me ur work ethiic and no onece did this person bitch about having to sharpen pencils....

u listen......to old teachers.....u forget ur fears whihc everyone has.....u listen....u do wahteer u have to to study go to help sessons get a tutor ten tutors ur lucky penny .....ir itakes u ten tmes longer to learn.....then thats what u do....u find.....taht formula that works for u.......u help out gain experience....no experience is trivial.......because

we always watching......those who work

those who are the divas.........

guess which ones........get the personal recomendations......

learn to play the game..............help out.....in a flower shop we dont care....then wil gain in cusomer service and and ndand ur confience will grow and

ull havd a job and clients and a boss that knows ur reiliabel and friends.........

stop .....thinking about fears and anziety that are normla and universal........

every single student or person in the theatre or singer.....is scared to death.....

normal.....but.......the want someting so bad........they grit their teeth and wrok their butts off...........over prepare...........for that audition or job u want........

scared of trhe interview then practice over and over and over.....and over.....

then do it again..........in two weeks time...............mark my words........u will

be ready..............thats.....how it works....

everyone on this site knows that ..........im just the most long winded

just how bad.........do u want ur goal.........that.....is the question.........not that u have fears or depression or oror

who........dont??

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Gosh you sound really frustrated. It sounds like when people don’t listen and don’t follow your advice, especially when you know what they should do that seems to be especially hard for you. I hope you find some peace.

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Brig57 in reply to Daesin

im fine- i feel sad or sorry for countless people sucked into the same thing each time i read this site......hi...just learned i have anxiety disorder....hi im shy and alone and no one likes me and im awkward...

ive been coaching succcessfully with these people coming to us....fully aware of the same things.....we have a totally differnt aproach .....and my students go onto careers whereas many in the mhs endlessly stay ....and .

because we dont teach sickness .....we dont teach when u accep;t ur mental ilness etc

i train students and horses of al temperments.....99 percent succeed.......

im not frustrated....i ignore the mhs and i am sucessful in about ten areas, and continue to be so grow and succeed with out methods.......doing exactly what i or we say.......

im not frustrated until i read this site.....

all modesty asdie im highly successful in about 5 professions and using my methods continue to grow and grow and grow.........

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Brig57 in reply to Brig57

my resume is 5 pages of experience and skills.....proficeient under extreme stress and preussure.......

2 masters, two bachelors...and and and ....that i can do tomoorow.....in my sleep....

just trying to pass on how we all did it....

i wont anymore....trust me im only frustrated reading the classic mhs method....

..i can do whatever i want to do......teach myself whatever i want to and have ......suit yoursleves

forgot to mention a guy that looks exactly like me used to inspect huge food packing plants and e wrote three books on art instruction........and doesnt consider himself exceptonal at all......

bored......with the loser mentality of teaching people they are sick.....and made worse by the mhs....

but thanks.....he also has 25 inventions.......

Brig

I agree. Work your way up and work hard. That's the way to reach your goal.

You don't sound frustrated to me at all. You speak from loads of experience. With open eyes we see how the world operates.

We tell it like it is. It's best to work to achieve your goals. Not have it given to us on a silver platter. Great post

❤️🐬

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Brig57 in reply to Dolphin14

tk u

Sorry Brag I must have misread your post. The formatting threw me off I guess.

no....im .......no ur fine............my bad ....

Well said, Brig! Absolutely right!

Cheers, Midori

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Brig57 in reply to Midori

thank u .....i hate.....accidentally sayingthings wrong and hurting people...

thank u for u r help and all u wonderful loving lovngo people to help them and comfort them.....i cant....but i cant stand it when people feel unwanted and outcasr rejeted

thank god for all of u

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