Had amazing experiences when living n britain......a doctor saved my twin brother...kept him n his house ...cared for by his wife and him......a week........he was vry sick and we were in Wales......
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my mthr same as always corrects u and shokingly .......same as mhs .........tell u how u should feel....
huh???????????
all women say the same thing........dont ever tell me how to feel.........who do u think u are??
we cconcur how bizarre people tell u ur full of it and and and........
how bisarre certain people think thier eperience or rtheir view is the view.......
I have noticed that many folk have only their own experiences to go by, and tend to think a condition or disease is exactly the same with everyone, when they aren't. Doctors and nurses are supposed to be better educated, but some aren't.
granted there is range of instructors and sports or disciplnes.......but u usually know what ur walking into..........sure the doctor and p nurses were great with certain circles and they were...........but.........1) the system does care as i tried......2) i should not talk my politics or my biases wthout being aware............to automatically judge someone that they just met and started dumpoing on because rthey consuled my arch rival mother and then assumed and acted on it.........and assume because i work with horses im some elitist whatever .......or rich hunter jumper type.................no clue as to where these pepole are coming from............oh because i lived in England im automartically entitled or richor spoled............what? we all had tons of jobs and sure rich in experience........sure........my father did it on half salary and some tiny ilttle house........we biked through england on nthing money....
horrendous biases...........interns dont do anthing how can he be tired............sure.....human med inrterns..............not vet interns as we are rthe work force wfrom physical assesment to treatment to aroudn the clock..........and dobule wrong u cant defend urself......they just shut u dont tell u not to bitch and talk over u........
sowhile great wth certain cases........they assume all males are preditors........ver very jaded.........fine..........but........dont advertize that mental health are good listreners then nail them the second rthey opne rtheir mouiths...............or the doctor is far left oriented and nails u for.......
ive had good ones but no one listens about them either.......who knows what mh wants and their rules are al hidden and..
that isnt nrmal society.........u want good people in a company or area to stayu........better put in a good word........why should they stay.......the good onesa movw on........
i need rest i got ww14.......tortally unetrhical and immoral based on incorect heresay from my crtica mother.........she worked us to death and what do want a medal? we have complaints valid.......but to the slave driver.......cinderella comp;laint agiain..........
we know or familiies far better than people who jsut met us and start kickuin us around for no apparent reason..................oh..........must have called my mother............99 percentr total garbage.........getting over being mauled by a bad dog..........takes tons of good experiences and this one.......u cant forget which again.......they seem clueless about ...........hjorrible listeners.........just a really realy bad expeirence .........had good ones.......no one lstens to that iether.......want nothign to do with it.........need therapy ...ill go find some park and watch the birds or whatever.........they dont take things out of context call iur boss and andand..........to each their own..........i want nothign to do wth counesleors esp since they have noxeperienc n my areas.........
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hindsight.......wont put up with abusvie or dumping counselors.....no mtter what they thik or thkni they thik............one dump and im gone.......one game adn forget it........total and ultmate betrayal .......they think they can fix it like that......oh just smooth it over with a nurse.........adding insult to injury..........have no clue about human nature........insult after insult.......
hosp;tals take u in the way back.....do what they want......then later.......restage it wtht the nice peop;e.........total con job .....they think they can ......do what they please and all forgotten..............not a chance........were left with the nightmares.........whose ging to listne any way.......except for ten grand we dont have as they dump u and cut ur reseroces..............last tme tough love shit..........i never asked or wanted anyhting in the first place..........they violate us so many tmes.......we have zero power .........leads to depression and trurned in anger.......acceptance that theres good and horrible in the shystem and all swept undre the rug.......shrinks are untouchable.......not to St peter they aint........Santa isnt the only one........who knows and sees everyting..................all the stuff they are doing...........Karma a beach boys and girls the more they reprogram and steer and and and .......ive seen lots in these hopstials........doctors gong after pwoerless kids...........guess what........someday in nest life.........she........is going to his master.........he....is going to have yellow water puddling on the floor...............he deserves it the way he treated her and messing with her life..........god praise the nurse who risked her career to comfort her........behind the scenes.........the poor kid was terrified........rightly so.......he wrodered the nurse to pout a straight jacket on her........gets worse.........when he left a nurse god love her went in and safe to say here.........40min later the poor kid just sobbing and clinging to that nurse soooooooo bad rightlful so.......she risked her careeer......had i spoken up for her to admin..........shed be canned in twenty seconds.........
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myh counselor defending the local hosp......a sweet lady but too poly anny
i had frends who had to go ..there..............waayy dif story........she was a total sweetheart.........and gets labeled as personalithy disorder and and and they tell her not to intefer.........thats because everyhoen was going ot her........
long long story.........aint two people ish onthis planet who don hae persoanaltyh disroders........and starting to think most are rthe dcotors.......who dont work in the real world.......live n the shadows...........when do rtheyh work reg jobs and and .............they would last twnety seconds in thereal world.......or the streets........or farms.......
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i dont have to unstand there are places to visit.........and vacatons from hell.......open and shut im not interested in details.......stay away from Beruit if u know what good for u.........or North Korean border........or Turkey and buying drugs..............dude..........Turkish jails........same with some other** places and other doctors..........i dont need to unersrtand.......nope.........nada..........huge toxic signs on that place..........at ur own peril........
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like travel guides hrough the AAA- places one must see...
places only those who believe in daniels lion den story dare go and im not of that level of faith........suit urself.........im not vacationing in mexico, the invitation to the colluseum with other christians or Chernobyl tours.......thanks think ill pass this opprotunity to expand my mind............
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like rthe song hotel california......think ill catch the next movie......ive seen enough rocky horror stories for real.........and i definately dont need to read Steven King......
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i do not pretend to be objective...........im totally not a fan.........objective..........absoutley NOT .........
Absolutely. I like my own company rather than a bunch of tourists making inane comments or doing da*nfool things, expecting everyone to understand them, when they are in someone else's country. Do some research before you go then you won't insult the inhabitants of the place you are visiting, and give your nation a bad reputation.
I feel ashamed for my country when I see or hear some of the crazy stunts the Brits pull when abroad.
Be careful of the hand signals too, the thumbs up is very rude in Greece, for instance, and the index and little fingers extended is extremely rude in Italy. In some cultures, even pointing a finger is rude.
When I used to go abroad, we always dreaded coming across Americans in particular. They seem to have an appalling reputation in Europe, the entitlement seems to be extreme, especially when they expect everyone to speak English. We used to giggle at the German tourists, getting their towels on the loungers before breakfast to 'save' their places by the hotel pools. Japanese Tourists and their cameras, always clicking away, always polite.
In some ways I miss going abroad, but I always went camping to keep away from the tourists, and as far as possible went before the main tourist season started, or afterwards. We made some good friends by being polite and trying very hard to appreciate the cultures, foods, etc. I much prefer a museum to a beach anyway. I like to experience local life and cultures.
to be fair..........i had a fantastic doctor Nair and Li- and their staff.......the ideal.......totally humane ...no games no tough love no talking at u........very very compassionate.......no labels.........saved my best friend there.........long story.......(system doesnt care )...only comfort is all their patients......that idolize them justifiably.........wil be waiting when they cross over some day in the far far far distant times.........we prob do reap what we sow........we .......made sure some of the ruffens on the floor somehow didnt make to their interviews.........somehow got tied up with bs conversations.....these guys were drug people who were sent there wrongly.........nothign wrong with them.......zero consieraton or manners to anyone ............funny how they got busy talking about cars and stuff away from Dr Nair.......and Dr. Li.................oooops ...........our bad........
i just moved from a place.......landlord has three super toxic women there .......i do anthing .........they have a meltdown (fine) and call in their social worker.......accuse me of
huh??? i was just mowing.......
learned while i was was was sympathetic.......i dont go anywhere neera toxic places or people..........moved ten miles away ..........they are super toxic people and just looking to crucify the nearest male......my other college at the school was the same way.......abused by her husband..........now........a crusader and ur just in the way no matter waht u do..............has zero.............to do with gender..........can go either way........now shes the punisher before someone can strriker her..........i get it but
not workingwith them..........noope........taken too many beatings from others.........same with bad doctors......or nurses..........one strike............im on my road.............bad idea as a counselor................nope...........done with forgiveness ...........they just keep hitting u.........
Exactly why I'm solo and have been for more that thirty years. My son is the only male in my life, and my only problem is he tends towards over protectiveness, sometimes I feel like screaming!
He sometimes forgets that I may be 74, and getting a bit wobbly, but I'm still an independent person and will do for myself as far as possible. I still have a brain, ( OK, missing a marble here and there, but still capable). It's the physical side of getting out and about which is the trouble for me.
I could do with more of a hand to do the laundry, change the beds, clean the bathroom, cook, lump the heavy stuff about, but they seem to totally bypass his brain! Being limited in the physical strength area, I could do with a hand clearing the garage of cardboard boxes, too, they're taking over, I tell ya! Half the garage floor to ceiling! Will have to pay somebody to take 'em! I need the storage space!
Currently planning my Halloween decorations, I have 6 full skeletons (2 of which only have one leg each). Glue the legs back on, something my son will do for me. A cemetery kit, fencing, tombstones, etc. Animatronics a butler, a wolf and a guard dog (must get a collar for him, and a tag), various small animal skeletons, A cobweb which covers a large part of the front garden and a 6 foot Black Christmas tree which gets the Halloween treatment with bony decorations and s little skeleton rat for the topper.
I have solar Tiki Torches which I charge up to give a creepy vibe and mark the pathways, plus the usual assortment of (fake) pumpkins, sorry, not the hand strength to carve them myself. I used to, but life catches up and Arthritis is catching up with me.
I have all the candy for the kids, (just got to bag it up), also some money for any with allergies.
Just got to finalise the design and find all the bits amongst the cardboard boxes in the garage! (Most of it's been stored in my bedroom) as I have plenty of storage furniture, but there are some bits I still need to find, like the green string lights, purple ones for the Grim Reaper, and orange ones. And hope we don't get gales and torrential rain , as it gets very windy in Wales!
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