It is incredibly satisfying to open this forum and see many “likes” in the alerts. For someone that has spent the better part of the last ten years being alone and shutting the world out, I am warming back up to being around people.
Sure the medium is an anonymous support group but it could be in the dark alone in the basement with a box of tissues feeling sorry for myself with no outlet.
I have learned many coping techniques and while some are completely impractical for me, I see how they are beneficial to others.
Getting back to the point … it costs nothing to like someones post and for people that are alone like myself, having those yellow alerts makes me feel less so.
I have even started to put a little more humour in my responses because I am feeling somewhat more normal than I have in a long time. For those that follow me, either to see the ridiculous comments I sometimes make, or for the inspirational quotes, or the compassion I have occasionally shown, thank you for all those responses and likes.
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This is not begging for likes, it is my share of how I have come to appreciate all the wonderful people here that genuinely care about their fellow human.
This is a very supportive forum, that’s what we’re all here for!!!! Sure sometimes some people say stupid things, but there’s a lot of love on here. It’s been very helpful to me. I feel less alone.
For me as well. I was at rock bottom the day I arrived and have since improved albeit only slightly. Healing takes time and with the support I have received I am making progress. I count you as one of my biggest supporters, thank you.
It really can change the course of a day. I do not have social media and do not go seeking attention usually. Even with this post my intent is more focused on people like yourself that are inspirational supporters. I appreciate you.
That is the reality of it .. we are here for each other and those “likes” do wonders for a person that is searching for support. Infinite uses and a simple way to quietly show a person they are valued for their contributions to the group.
Be generous, your like could improve someones day.
I am glad you posted this! You have made me realize something - I love it too when I get likes or replies. So why wouldn't others? So, if I see a good post, I am going to at least click the like button. It might be all it takes to cheer up somebody's day.
It is incredible that a small gesture can have such an impact on us. Something along these same lines is holding a door open for another person. We are far more instrumental in the lives of others than we may realize.
Being here I feel like I'm not alone. I understand what you mean about likes. We may be anonymous here but that doesn't mean our humor and resilience doesn't come through. We are all unique and have something special to offer. I try to respond but some days a like is the best I can do. Thanks for reminding me that likes matter too.
If anything, one like can prove that someone is listening. When someone puts their thoughts out to the world, the worst feeling is the silence. Nobody can relate to every struggle being shared, but they can listen and give support.
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