Another Day

[Dominosmom]

today is another day & I'm having a bad one. Just sad & lonely. I'm living in an area with minimal places to connect with others. I had to put my 15yr old tabby down... I'm 65 yrs old & separated from family by hundreds of miles. I have no friends locally... Just moved here in May. I just want to connect with someone who understands.

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Well you can chat away with us all on here, hopefully you can make friends as well.

[Agora1]

Welcome Dominosmom....I'm so sorry about the loss of your Tabby.Know that you are not alone.. We Welcome you with open arms and heart.

I'm happy you are here with us xx

[Dominosmom in reply to Agora1]

Thank you soooo much. I really need to know people that are struggling like me. It helps me feel less alone.

[Agora1 in reply to Dominosmom]

Oh believe me Dominosmom, you are definitely not alone.Just wait until you start interacting with the others on this site.

It may be a worldwide forum, but we are all human and hurt the same. xx

[samack]

I feel for your isolation. Mine is self imposed. Are you in an isolated place or is it an issue of acclimation? I'm 63 and feel its harder than ever to restart connections. I lost my 17 and a half year old cat in January and am still actively grieving him.

[Dominosmom in reply to samack]

It's self imposed to a degree. I'm actively looking for people in the community... My problem is that trust is an issue. Sorry for your loss. It really hurts to lose a loved one. 17 yrs is a long time.

[samack in reply to Dominosmom]

Yes, trust is an issue. Its good you're open to looking for others.

[Roxylox]

Sending you support. Sorry about your cat.

[Balloffur2468]

Hey! you are not alone. I'm glad that you are reaching out.

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Hi so sorry you lost your cat it helped me when I got another there's always people to connect with on here your not alone take care x🤗🐯

[b1b1b1]

I am very sorry about your cat. It is very good that you are here, however.x

[linco515]

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Tabby. I have a ten year old tabby I'm afraid of losing. I understand how you feel. I have become mostly agoraphobic, I'd love to correspond with you.

[Dominosmom in reply to linco515]

Sure. I'd like to correspond

[MaggieSylvie]

Hi Dominosmum,

You are having a bad day - so don't ask too much of yourself. You have posted here, which is good. So is there a way you could find out what people around you do to meet others?

I don't know anything about your medical conditions, but do you have a nurse you could discuss how your symptoms seem to cycle? It might help if you could adjust your meds.

But welcome here. You have already found others who are grieving over their cats. It is so hard, but sharing it might help.

🤗

[catsrock]

I totally get it as I'm 59 and moved somewhere new last fall. It just takes time as I'm only recently starting to feel like I'm getting to know some people and, even that, is just casually. I'm so sorry about your cat - I'm a big cat lover as you can tell by my online name. I hope you find a group to connect with. For me it's been through a swimming group and I'm also volunteering at a cat shelter. I hope your day gets better.

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Sorry to hear about your cat.