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My Dad passed early this morning very calmly and peacefully. I had a few very sweet moments with him over the past few days and I’ll be forever grateful for those memories 🩷

Thanks for y’all’s support

Grief is the absolute worst

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kenster1

so sorry to hear that thinking of you and the family.

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Mskitty21 in reply to kenster1

Thank you 🩷

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Sillysausage234

sorry to hear that ms kitty,condolences to you and your family

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Mskitty21 in reply to Sillysausage234

Thank you 🩷🩷

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Agora1

Mskitty, my sincere sympathy on the loss of your father.

I'm glad you had some moments with him before his passing.

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this most

difficult time. xx

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Mskitty21 in reply to Agora1

Thank you 🩷 I’ve been sitting in his recliner all day 🩷 Just thinking of good memories

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Agora1 in reply to Mskitty21

Good memories are made of healing thoughts :) xx

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Dolphin14

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family

❤️🐬

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Mskitty21 in reply to Dolphin14

Thank you so much 🩷

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Arymretep

Sending my sympathy on the loss of your dad,

Those that live in the hearts of others never die❤️

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Mskitty21 in reply to Arymretep

That was a very sweet thing to say 🩷 Thank you

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Mskitty21

That was a very sweet thing to say 🩷 Thank you

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Shnookie

So sorry for the loss of your father. Please keep beloved memories of him close to your heart. You might want to join a bereavement group in the future to help you process your grief. I was my beloved mommy’s sole caregiver when she had stage 4 pancreatic cancer. After she passed away, I joined a bereavement group. It was very helpful.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Shnookie

Thank you 🩷 And thanks for the good idea 😊 I’m so sorry about your mom.. my mom passed away about 5 yrs ago and I still miss her everyday.

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Shnookie in reply to Mskitty21

Thank you so much for your kind words. As my mom’s situation was deteriorating, as a request for my birthday, She left me a voice mail in an old school answering machine. She left me with very touching words - U R the best daughter in the world and God only knows that and humor follow my advice because it’s heartfelt.

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Midori in reply to Shnookie

How lovely.

Cheers, Midori

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Shnookie in reply to Midori

Yes this recording means so much to me. My mother was my best friend. I was there for her when she had pancreatic cancer all the time. I was her sole caregiver. That kind of love will always stay deep in my heart.

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Willow2022

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs to you and your family during this difficult time 💜

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Mskitty21 in reply to Willow2022

Thank you Willow2022 🩷 We do need all the hugs we can get right now.

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BlueAgave

My sympathies to you and your family. What a blessing that you were able to spend time with him this week. ❤️

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Mskitty21 in reply to BlueAgave

Thank you 🩷 It was a blessing… and memories I’ll hold in my heart forever.

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Mskitty21

Thank you 🩷 It was a blessing… and memories I’ll hold in my heart forever.

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Sugaree

awww sorry to hear that. Hold on to those special moments.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Sugaree

Thank you 🩷🩷 And yes… I def will along with some other special Daddy and daughter memories 🩷

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SayNOtoPanic

😞so sorry Mskitty. Dads are everything. ☹️lifting you in prayer.

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Mskitty21 in reply to SayNOtoPanic

Thank you 🩷 Got a rough couple of days ahead of us but at least my Dad is at peace 🩷

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SayNOtoPanic in reply to Mskitty21

praying for you hang in there.

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Stippler

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Stippler

Thank you for your kind words Stippler 🩷 I appreciate them.

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Cavalierrubie

l was carer to my husband who had bladder cancer. It was good to be with him in his last days. Grief happens to all of us at some point in our lives and slowly we learn to live with it. We do our best and God does the rest. Thinking of you and pray for your strength in the days ahead.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Cavalierrubie

Thank you 🩷 Unfortunately I’ve had a few others very close to me pass already and know that it just takes time to grieve. It’s just very difficult when the one person you never thought would die (my big strong Daddy) actually dies 💔

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Cavalierrubie in reply to Mskitty21

Losing a parent is so hard. We are with them from birth and they are always there for us (well good parents are) and love us unconditionally. It’s like our safety net is taken away and we feel like orphans, My dad died 2000 and my mum 2015. My husband 2009. They say God gives most when most is taken away. You will smile again and have happy times and the emptiness will fade, but there will always be an empty space that nobody can fill because of the special bond that can never break, You will be ok. Parents want us to be happy and enjoy life, so we go on for them. Take one day at a time. We are left to grieve, but the angels in Heaven will be singing at his arrival. God bless and look after yourself.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Cavalierrubie

This is all so very kind and all so true. Thank you for taking the time to share this with me.. it truly means a lot 🩷

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Cavalierrubie in reply to Mskitty21

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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CLB1125

my deepest sympathies

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Mskitty21 in reply to CLB1125

Thank you 🩷🩷🩷

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Gillyflower18

So sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had those last few days with him. Very precious.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Gillyflower18

Thank you 🩷🩷 They were very precious and even tho it was heartbreaking I’m glad I was here with him.

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Tracey0101

So sorry for your loss thinking and praying for you sending hugs and peace to you ❤️

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Mskitty21 in reply to Tracey0101

Thank you 🩷 there are peaceful moments just knowing he’s not suffering anymore.

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Spud-u-Like1982

So sorry to hear of your loss. Cherish those sweet memories you mention and that will let him live on in your heart.

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Mskitty21 in reply to Spud-u-Like1982

Thank you 🩷 Yes… he will always be with me.. ALWAYS 🩷🩷🩷

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dutchgirl71

I’m so sorry for your loss. May the wonderful memories comfort you during this sad time.

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Mskitty21 in reply to dutchgirl71

Thank you Dutchgirl 🩷 We’ve been remembering some of the funny stuff he did and that’s helpful 😊 He was always so handsome and charming and that is the Daddy I will remember.

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corgi_fan817

I am sorry to hear about your loss. Condolences to you and your family.

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Mskitty21 in reply to corgi_fan817

Thank you corgi_fan 🩷🩷🩷

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J_J_758

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this time.

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Mskitty21 in reply to J_J_758

Thank you for your kindness 🩷

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kb-FNMW

My heart goes out to you. Losing a parent is very difficult. I am so happy that you had the time with him to make the greiving a bit easier. God bless

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Mskitty21 in reply to kb-FNMW

Thank you so much 🩷 God bless you as well

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bethelbee

So very sorry for your loss. May his memories be a blessing...

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Mskitty21 in reply to bethelbee

Thank you 🩷

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