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Happy Easter 🐥

I am very anxious my mother having test to see if she has cancer . Until the appointment I am very upset .

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Hb2003

I would love to chat with you 🙏☺️

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

Thank you so much 🥰 . How is your day going ?

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

It’s been good hows yours ?☺️

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

It has been lovely we went to the beach ⛱️ lovely day

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

That’s wonderful i love the beach ☺️

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

It was really lovely 🥰

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

☺️ i love wriggling my feet in the sand and i love to put my feet in the water so relaxing ☺️

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

I like sitting on the beach ⛱️

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

Me too ☺️

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

I hope that your mom will be well i am thinking of her 🙏❤️

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

We don't hear until May she doesn't go . Just anxious waiting

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

Until may that sucks 🙁 i bet you really are

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

Be glad for this time next week won't be so long . Yeah a two week wait is May not to impressed to be honest

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

Just hope for the best 🙏 that’s what i do

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

Trying my best but thinking of all answers

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Hb2003 in reply toAmanda556

I understand that .

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Amanda556 in reply toHb2003

Soon have answers and know be end off

Don't worry, everything will be fine. I'll pray for your mother 🙏

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Amanda556 in reply to

Thank you so much for praying . I would appreciate everything to be fine as if not be to stressful and upsetting .

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Shnookie

This is Shnookie. I’ll say healing prayers 4 your mom. I’m here 4 U

Hugs 🤗 S ❤️🙏

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Amanda556 in reply toShnookie

Thanks for the prayers and saying your hear for me .

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Shnookie in reply toAmanda556

You R very welcome 🙏. Please keep us in the loop. I know what it is like waiting on the results of a test for possible cancer

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Amanda556 in reply toShnookie

I will definitely inform you in May when we hear .

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Shnookie in reply toAmanda556

Thank you 🙏 very much. Hugs 🤗 Shnookie

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Chico49

Hi hope your well as can be? Feel free to message me for a chat

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Amanda556 in reply toChico49

Thank you so much . I am just so tired .

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Chico49

Your very welcome. I know how you feel I’m constantly tired. Do you have any plans today?

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Amanda556 in reply toChico49

Been working just finsihed . Now moaning as work was annoying .

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Stuckwithme59

Hi Amanda. I am sorry to hear you are having to wait for your mother's testing. Can I do anything to help?Kurt

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Amanda556 in reply toStuckwithme59

Just chat to me really

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Chico49

I’m doing a 12 hour shift today driving At least the weather is lovely

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Amanda556 in reply toChico49

Yes it is lovely weather

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Sara_2611

i hope the test is negative

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Tara52

I hope you are having a better day. I am praying your Mom receives a good report. Do you have any siblings? Do you have a friend you can get out and go for a walk with?All of my 4 brothers live far away in different states. There is only one that chats with me on the phone. I am alone alot. Every morning I pray and think of the things I am grateful for and then get out of bed. The flowers are so pretty this time of year.🙂🌻⚘🌺 What is your favorite flower?

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Amanda556 in reply toTara52

No I am a only child . I asked my friend if we could meet up

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Amanda556 in reply toAmanda556

I quite like roses 🌹

It's the uncertainty isn't it that's upsetting.

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Yes definitely , when I know one way or the other I will be fine

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sunflowers4life

I am here if you need me Amanda. My mom was diagnosed in January with breast cancer. Hoping for the best possible outcome for your mom ❤️

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Amanda556 in reply tosunflowers4life

Thank you so much . Sorry to hear about your mum

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sunflowers4life in reply toAmanda556

No worries. We caught it early and thankfully she has had a good outcome with surgery and will be getting radiation soon. I remember there was a lot of unknowns during the month that we had to do testing for it. Just try to keep busy during this waiting period because I know it can be nerve wracking.

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It's never very nice is it having to wait around for treatment and test results!

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No I am the worst . Google comes in before test

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sunflowers4life in reply toAmanda556

Google is the absolute worst, especially because if you’re searching for something that will trigger your anxiety you will most likely find it. For now I would stay off of it at least until your mother has a straight answer as to what’s going on with her body.

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Laykonyde

Hi Amanda,

How are you today.

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Amanda556 in reply toLaykonyde

I am good been painting . Back is hurting

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Laykonyde in reply toAmanda556

Sorry to hear this. Why not take some paracetamol tabs to help your sore back.

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Amanda556 in reply toLaykonyde

I do quite often I think my back pain is worse than anything other than medication from the Dr

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Laykonyde in reply toAmanda556

Poor you. Sorry to hear this.

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Amanda556 in reply toLaykonyde

Life I just want a day's work where I am doing something different .

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Laykonyde in reply toAmanda556

Are u in between jobs at the mo?

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Amanda556 in reply toLaykonyde

No I just want to change career or have a day doing something else that earns money

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Laykonyde in reply toAmanda556

Oh! I see. I hope you find something you like soon!

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Amanda556 in reply toLaykonyde

Me too

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dalton999

hi amanda, please dont worry yourself.you will make yourself unwell and thats not going to help your mum.at the moment i have just found out i have lung cancer my appointment is tommorow to see speiaclist cant spell lol,anyway they have lots of treatments no days that really help,i dont no with myself has yet.but it doesnt mean to say that your mum may not be around anymore,try to be more postive and try to ask alot of questions who ever is dealing with your mum ok.kindess regards dalton

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Amanda556 in reply todalton999

Sorry to hear about your cancer

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Amanda556

Hi

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Amanda556

What games do you like playing ?

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Mal22

Sending you all my love and at the moment it's really tough but I would try the best you can to think positively, and when you know what's happening you will be able to deal with it and support your Mum xxx

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Amanda556

I don't really play games

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Amanda556

It would be good

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Amanda556

Work . Look after the dog . House work

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Faithrae

Im sorry your going through this. Just remember worrying isn't going to help or change anything. Try to be positive. I know the anxiety can be hard to control. Treatments are so much better than they used to be. I might be nothing. But if your mom is sick, she just needs your loving support. Your so lucky to have each other. You will be in my thoughts.

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Amanda556

Add a update . Thank you for all your support 💖 . Got to this stage not anxious just relaxed .One more week next week . Then next sun covid test mum will be seeing the consultant 👍🙂. Someone had cancer got five years so an outcome like that would be good enough .

Mum is anxious as soon as we know we know .

She is asking what the test are like am I meant to say painkillers maybe required ?

Have a good rest of the weekend

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Amanda556

We should find out on Tuesday the answers .

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sunflowers4life in reply toAmanda556

Logged on and thought to check this thread. Sending you my best ❤️

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Amanda556 in reply tosunflowers4life

Thank you . We find out today

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Jsteve36

What console do you play on.I play gta v and call of duty

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Amanda556

Mum is fine it was a Polyp . All fine .

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Relieved to hear that :-)

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sunflowers4life in reply toAmanda556

So happy to hear!!!

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