Depressed, sharing home with an elderly woman

[Dera1]

I'm married with two kids, but my husband is living in europe another country with a woman old enough to be his mother, I've really tried to told him is difficult being in distance let alone knowing he's married to that country lady for paper, it has made me so depressed and less focus, un tired of his promises that he will bring us over, what do I do.

[Blueruth]

I’m a little confused. Is he married to both of you or unwilling to leave his country?