I am annoyed, my friend (which I shouldn't be calling her a friend at all) this person wanted to give me some of her clothes so that I can sell them for her to pick them up at her work, She wanted me to pick up the items on Tuesday but then her husband needed the car so she decides to take the day off so then we said okay Wednesday. Wednesday comes and I messaged her if she has the clothes with her and she said yes then she told me that there isn't any parking at all and I said I'll find a parking but then she's like no like at work they are fixing the parking alot and all the workers had to park in the front and I thought will okay I can still try to find parking like I been to her work like 2 weeks ago to drop off her wallet, there was nothing wrong with the parking alot and plus it was so easy to just give her wallet to her vs. How she is making it hard on me to get clothes from her. Anyways it all didn't make sense at all, she told me that they arent going to get the parking alot done within two weeks like wtf, then she said that I can pick them up after work which is at 4 so 3:45 she calls me and tells me that the parking alot is still full that I can go tomorrow which is today to pick them up to just to park behind her and she would give it to me and I said okay. Dismorning I get a message from her saying how her husband is going to drop her off for me to come after work but then I told her I don't know if I'll have the car then she says u can come by maybe Saturday to her house to pick it up and I said I don't know if I'll have the car cuz it's my brother we are sharing the car and then she said maybe tomorrow or Monday we'll figure it out like it would be easier if she drop it off at my house but her excuse is she lives in opposite direction like omg it's so stressful like it was so easy to bring the wallet now its hard to get clothes. Then she told me that she talked to the security guards to see if when the parking alot is going to get fixed and she said either today or tomorrow like honestly all day yesterday I had given her ideas on how we can meet like her job is next to a restaurant and Walmart and wouldn't meet me there or anywhere like her work is so close that that most common sense things aren't common sense to her so I'm like oh ok whatever. I'm so done with her and her excuses and lies but how can someone make things so stressful like I don't understand that at all.
How can one person stress you out?? - Anxiety and Depre...
How can one person stress you out??
I remember your wallet post. Definitely weird. I wonder now if she is prepping you for a scam. I would refuse any other exchanges of stuff. Why not start with this? Just say not interested. Too much friction involved.
I just don't know why make it so hard when it's easy. Maybe she doesn't have the clothes and instead of just being honest she has to make this whole lie up.
Don’t bother trying to figure out. You are just stressing yourself out. Just get rid of her. I bet if you say thanks but no thanks a couple times she will disappear. That will give you your answer.
She never stops. I have to distance myself for her to stop.
Great idea to distance yourself from her!!! She sounds toxic and you don't need her in your life.
I will thank you
Wait. This is the same woman with the wallet issue?
Oh No! Honey you need to run. Just block her. You are absolutely right that this is not your friend.
There’s something way wrong with this woman and she’s trying to suck you into something that is not gonna be healthy for you. I don’t know if it is financial or emotional but either way you don’t need to be in the middle of it. Step back step …far away… wave your final goodbye and mean it.
Good luck 🍀
I agree thank you
Just tell her Directly, with NO apologies, that you've "had it", you are moving on, and you wish her well. Be FIRM, and DON'T LOOK BACK. Keep it short. That is All you need to say. Just fire her today.
I will thank you
You are being much too accommodating to her. If she wants you to sell stuff for her then it's up to her to get them to you. It's not your job to go out of your way and put up with this s*** from her.
Don't mention it to her again and if she says anything say you look forward to her bringing them over to you. Do not get drawn into her games and little dramas.
And don't feel guilty about it either! You don't have to run around after anyone let alone a 'friend'.
I don't feel guilty it's just annoying how she keeps playing these games with me.
Someone can only play games with you if you let them. The answer is to cut them off and refuse to play. That way you won't get stressed.
Absolutely!
Thank you I will
Hello,I am not sure how long that you have known this person, but please be careful. This does sound like a scam. However, if you have been friends a long time with this person, then find away to drop this clothes topic, she will find away. And move forward with your friendship. God bless you for trying to help!
Even so-called long-term friends can lose their minds and screw you over. Run from this woman!
I will not be friends with someone who lies about everything.
Hi, Why would she want you to sell them? What do you get out of this?Could they be stolen items?
Almost like what I experienced one time. Had just met this nice lady in
a coffee shop in town. Within a short time, she seemed to want to be friends.
The day came when she said she had a bag of clothes that would fit me. What she
didn't tell me until the day she appeared at the door with the bag was that she wanted
to sell them to me. ???
Beware of so called friends 
xx
She wants me to sell the clothes cuz she doesn't need them anymore and we would split the cost of the clothes when it gets sold.
I'm surprised none of ur internal alarms aren't going off as loud as mine are reading ur post . U've tried everything to help but its like she is playing a childish prank.
The world is messed up enough without someone else trying to play games.
Move on with ur life WITHOUT her clothes she can deal with it herself as you've gone above & beyond. She most likely already given them to someone else but is afraid to be honest with U. So next time as a joke asking if she given the clothes to someone else.
Thank you for the advice.
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