Feeling lost and hard mornings

[Lookingforhope20100]

I've been friends with my male bestie since high school and lately he has been distant and distracted and I feel him pulling away he has loved me for years but I never felt the same way... now I love him and he has moved on I haven't told him, it wouldn't work anyways we'd never see each other and my family hates him. I really don't know what I'd do if I lost him for good but if that time comes he will shine like gold in my memories because he is the perfect guy everything I want in a guy all except my family issues and he is taken. Now onto my next thing mornings, mornings for me are hard and I don't know if that's because of my meds or because I'm human but I just can't seem to wake up nor do I want to wake up until noon but I'm also the mother of a toddler that doesn't like to sleep I don't know anymore and when I do wake up I just have this sad feeling like today is just going to suck but it goes away with my meds.

[hypercat54]

It sound to me like he has distanced himself from you to avoid getting hurt any further and given it up as a bad job. If you love him and want to be with him then tell him. Make sure though that part of this isn't the fact he is moving on in itself.

[Hidden]

Is the child yours and His or someone elses ?Just it sounds like this relationship seem to be running its course sad to say ?

Just when a relationship has been there for you for a long time, the special relationship you once had has burnt so brightly now that flame is burning out. This happens when we are young. The same happened to me, that first love.

Give it some thought I hope I am wrong. Wonderous days now sad to say will be ahead of you as you start looking for Mr Right.

BOB

[Lookingforhope20100 in reply to Hidden]

No my kid isn't his but he is her godfather and we might have run our course Im giving him the space he asked for

[b1b1b1]

Your family is not the one having the relationship with him, so I would ignore their views. In any event, they would eventually come round. I am going to say exactly what Hypercat said: if you love him tell him. If you do not at least make this effort you may always regret it.

[Genuineguy]

If he is taken then maybe its best leaving him be especially if he wanted space and you didn't want to be with him before. Unless, you have a really good reason why you're feelings have changed and he's not married/in a serious relationship. Otherwise it will really confuse him.I know it can feel really sad but maybe it's best for you too to have some distance. It could help you be more ready to give your heart to someone else who will be just right for you. Please be patient though. There are some decent loving guys around.

[Mrspjsmom]

Mornings can be rough especially if you haven't slept well. I try to wake up at least an hour before my husband comes home from work. I need time while the world is still quiet. I need to get moving at my own pace. I'm glad you feel better after you take your meds. I usually do too. Don't know what to say about your friend. If he has moved on and asked for space I would do that.