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Hello everyone on here. It’s been a few weeks since my brother passed, and I miss him so much. I’ve cried so much for him, and I wish he knew how much I loved him. I miss his calls, and texts. The pain of losing a loved one is, hard to put in words. SAMSON

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Agora1

My dear Strongest. Know that even the strongest of people can crumble whenthey lose someone they love. It's okay to cry, the emotional pain we feel throughout

our body needs to be released. Missing someone is part of our being. The hardest

thing is the coming and going of the thoughts of that person and forgetting sometimes

that they are gone. Waiting for the phone to ring or picking up the phone to call that

person until you realize, that will never be again.

Our mind tries to protect us by slowly making our mind accept this devasting hurt.

Each one of us heals within a different time frame. Know that your brother knew how

much you loved him. Love is shown in many different ways while they are alive.

It doesn't stop once they are gone.

If anything, your brother would want you to go on with your life, continue in being

a great father to your daughter, his niece. We honor the people we love who have

passed on, by living our life to the fullest. Breathe my friend, give yourself time

to heal. :) xx

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Strongest123 in reply to Agora1

Thank you Agora1. I’ve been crying and been incredibly sad. I haven’t been able to do much the last few days. Been talking to my therapist twice a week and talking to some of my friends. Thank you so much for your kind words and support. SAMSON

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All I can say is I’m so sorry. Remember the good things about him. I’m a girl with two younger sisters, I never had a brother. In some ways I wish I did, however I also know some girls who just can’t stand their brothers. Depends on the personality.

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I believe my brother who passed couldn't stand me.

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fauxartist

I am so sorry for your loss.... it's such a deep and personal pain that only you can truly understand... I hope you know though that those memories of the good things are what you will eventually hold onto to know he is always with you.

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Arymretep

Sorry for your loss, it’s so hard to come to terms with , take care,

Those that live in the hearts of others never die ❤️

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Marysblue

Sorry for your loss. That is a difficult one. They buried my Aunt today. But I'm surprised I am OK.

If you have to, look in to local grief groups, they're usually free.

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