I'm worried about my sister

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She's 14,she's really angsty. She's upset rn because she has exams, i'm trying to help her but she's only Yelling at me and saying she doesn't understand anything. She's desperate she doesn't understand anything, she doesn't want to study because she doesn't understand anything but she wants good marks in order to get a schoolarship and have money for Genshin impact which she said is the only thing that keeps her. I'm really worried about her and whether she's traumatized or depressed but i should keep my cool or she's gonna get even more upset and seeing she can't rely on us.

Problems keep on avalanching and i don't even have a proper solution or a therapist 😢

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I would advise to let her study on her own. When my sister also helps me, i get annoyed too sometimes. It's because we want to study in solitude and don't want others to get between us and our studies.

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Really? But i don't know whether she can do it on her own.... Oh she started crying now 😭

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And dad told her that she's wasting time gaming and gaming is the only thing keeping her. She must have felt terrible. It's the mental damage of him leaving the reason she can't study. And he doesn't even realise it

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I already did

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Do you see my messages now?

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Tried to talk to dad, he doesn't understand. Now sis is articulating her anger towards me

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Can you not go out of the house for an hour and let everything settle?

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It's freezing but i went for half an hour to cry privately and let her calm

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So she is OK now and you?

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She sees distracted but i'm scared she might lash out again or be traumatized inside. It's my biggest fear. I'm scared she might get upset again or scold me. And i'm still anxious as hell, trying my best to not to cry in front of her. I'm terrified of her and what is happening to her

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Do you need to give her some space?

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I don't even know. I'm just so scared she's gonna lash out at me. There's no much space, we live in the same room.

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You are a bit stuck indeed..... 😶

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😢😢