Sadness

[Lookingforhope20100]

I'd be lying if I said I was happy with my boyfriend at the moment...we had a date today I was super happy about it I felt like I was in high school again I got up early took a shower changed my outfit like 4 times did my makeup the whole 9 and he forgot I even messaged him asking if we were still going out and he was ignoring me I don't know what he was doing all day but needless to say I'm sad and disappointed. Normally I'd be petty and ignore him until he apologizes but I'm not that person anymore that doesn't mean I won't be bitter when I talk to him. Like I don't know what his problem is and he isn't talking to me...and what's worse is I lend him money or anything he asks of me and then he pulls crap like this what should I do because honestly I'm at a loss here all I want to do is spend time with him out in public and it's like he doesn't want to be seen with me I know in my heart that's not the case but it just hurts. I wish he didn't have this affect on me but I love him and he is hurting my heart without knowing that he is I'm just pissed. Thoughts ideas anything welcome

[Violadima]

I am so sorry love. That is a pretty crappy thing to do. I can actually relate to this a little bit. Unfortunately there are those certain type of women that put their whole heart into things including relationships. That's just who we are. The more we give the harder we hurt. If you know deep down he is not trying to hide you or hurt you intentionally then maybe have a conversation with him. Or maybe he just needs to lose you to see what he has right in front of him. Don't know you or the time and effort you have put into this but I hope you figure things out and aren't sad anymore.

[Lookingforhope20100]

I'm scared that if I do it will mess up what we do have right now I'm terrified of losing him because without him there is little to no love in my life

[Midori]

I would be a little careful of him and not lend him money. You didn't say if he paid you back or not, but it's not the best idea, especially If he doesn't reply to messages.

[cbgrace1980]

I'm so sorry he forgot about your date!!! That is frustrating. If he's not making you happy, it might be a good time to have a heart to heart conversation about your relationship. Sometimes people can use us to their own advantage and not care about how we feel. I hope this isn't the case. Hugs to you!