Falling in love.

[Yuuupsongbook002]

I lost my virginity and I fell in love with this man. I haven't seen him nor touched him in years. He only texts or calls my phone. He stalked someone to get my phone number. Is there any help someone can give me?

[Rick1on1]

Not sure what the problem is. Pls elaborate.

[Yuuupsongbook002 in reply to Rick1on1]

I feel anxious. What part do I have to elaborate?

[Midori]

Hi there and welcome.

Could you give us some more to go on, please? Your posting was a little sparse.

Thank you,

Cheers, Midori

[Yuuupsongbook002 in reply to Midori]

Hi. What more do you need?

[Midori in reply to Yuuupsongbook002]

You gave up your virginity to this man and he has virtually abandoned you. Now he occasionally phones or texts? And nothing else? No plans to see you?

I hate to say it but you are being played. He might think of you as a friend or a bit on the side, but he doesn't love you.

Stalking a friend to get your number sounds weird, though.

You have wasted your life in hope for him to come back to you, I regret to say it won't happen, and it's time to end your fruitless hopes for this man, please don't waste any more time on him. Find someone who will love you as much as you love them.

I'm very sorry.

Cheers, Midori

[Yuuupsongbook002 in reply to Midori]

Thanks. 🥲 we are just friends. It ain't love. I just wish he would be more to me. Lol. He does play funny games like that, and they are weird.

[Yuuupsongbook002]

Report him to who, and why?

[Yuuupsongbook002]

Why? I love him. He didn't mean to do anything wrong.

[Yuuupsongbook002]

Yes.

[Blueruth]

I am not sure what you are asking for but this isn't love.

[Yuuupsongbook002 in reply to Blueruth]

People say that, but I don't know why I feel like I'm on love with him.

[Blueruth in reply to Yuuupsongbook002]

Probably because there is something else you are hanging on to. A therapist can help but in the end only you can answer what that might be. Losing your virginity is a profound experience. You said man. Does that mean he was much older?

[Yuuupsongbook002]

You funny. Lol

[Yuuupsongbook002]

It could be his vybe, because he loves himself, but he's hateful. And no he was A teenage male.

[Blueruth in reply to Yuuupsongbook002]

It sounds to me like you may have conflicting emotions. That must be confusing. It is okay to cherish the memory and also move on. It doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship today.

[Yuuupsongbook002]

I think your right.

[Yuuupsongbook002]

You didn't read the whole post. Lol. 🤣🤣🤣 you must be A man, because most men sound dumb.