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There's this lady I meet few months ago and things has been going well but I haven't been happy with some things I told her and things got really messed up she's not chatting or replying me this was the text I sent her below now she's completely off

Hi good morning I wasn't planning to say anything but that might be sort of not so good umm so recently I feel reluctant or just don't even want to tell you what's going on whether its me not feeling fine or being broke or I need of some assistance I stopped this because of the reaction i get most times when I tell you stuffs like that fine I tell other people cos to some point they can proffer a solution and probably go high and low till I'm fine if it's you you'll probably just say SORRY. So what's the point in tell you or if it's when I'm broke and she knows she'll just turn up without me asking but once again you really don't come through you are different and how I feel about you is different and I'll put myself on the line for you if it's what I have to do and have been trying to get you to take away the self centeredness attitude when it comes to both of us when it relates to both of us you are sort of self centered and I don't like it cos it worries me it's not just you or me there's two of us and as you want me to have your back I would be most definitely want that to know you know to know you've got me in all ways I don't want to attach all these importance to you and feel like I'm putting myself on the line too much

After this I told her I needed space and she hasnt replied me or said anything afterwards

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Sorry Mike, it's not easy waiting to hear back from people we care about. Maybe give it a few days and hopefully she'll reach out.

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