Harsh

[Lve2dance]

My mom is nasty about a break up I am going through.. I never really knew the actual status but seemed more than friends. She, is, blaming me for the split

[Rick1on1]

Is she maybe just giving her opinion?

[Lve2dance in reply to Rick1on1]

Not really... She said it was my fault in the bedroom.I never fought with the person.. We had great conversations. Had attraction.. He was a little selfish won't go into details.. So I didn't want to do anything else after but cuddle.. He talked to me after that.. But we didn't have great communication apparently if something was bothering him. He was busy with work so I figured that.. He friend zoned me by long text.

[Hidden]

Both you and Ex are best to know the relationship is not right for either of you before it becomes to serious, however if in the future you both feel different getting back together MAY be possible.

It is sad your Mother has taken that attitude you describe, Did she never go through something similar when She was young. Life and relationships can be so very intense, a little bit of support from Her would have helped you

BOB

[Lve2dance in reply to Hidden]

We get along but it is like a contest.. When I was your age already had a kid.. Married twice big homes cars etc

[Lve2dance in reply to Hidden]

He left door closed to that.. Odd because we were really attracted.. I just think we were not physically compatible in some ways.. We got on so well before the next step.. Over 3 months.. Hopefully we can still talk.. His, Dad knew my grandfather very well and he knew my grandfather.

[Hidden]

Could it be you are making a relationship possibly work because both Grandfathers knew eachother, I used to be keen on one of my fathers Friends Daughter, they had lived next door to eachother so my grandparents knew the family, the daughter actually died before a relationship formed although the thought of the relationship may have been some comfort you thought for family. In my case it was a possible easy way out. We were also to young for eachother. Sometimes it can be put down metophorily to a Girl/Boy next door ??. although we both lived in different areas. We sometimes need to look further afield . In my case I met someone I did not know although an uncle knew of the family. The story was very strange although that is something different.

Give yourself time and allow to see what happens in the future, there is nothing wrong for a relationship that has loose connections to your family. You can always get back together if there is a positive need, with love between the two of you

BOB

[Lve2dance in reply to Hidden]

Not at all... We dated for a long time before I made the connection.. It was just a bonus I knew he came from a good family 😊

[Hidden in reply to Lve2dance]

Whatever you decide, you will make the best choice for you and you will know that when it happens, it just takes time and I wish you well in the choices you make. We have been together now for forty odd years and the Uncle has now left us to those green medows we all go to

Good Luck

BOB

[Lve2dance in reply to Hidden]

Sweet.. It's not my decision though. By text he closed any chance of it.. I'm just trying to keep a friendship. I'm still friends with someone I knew years, dated a few years then broke It off