Why do I get mommy issue that i do have learning disability

I always had issue with my mum trying to boss me around even know i kept saying i grown *** adult not a ******** child . it always pissed off . my mum always does to me only . I ask my younger sister if mum bosses you around and my younger sister said no. I am the middle child of my older sister and my younger . I am one that very unfair rearmament with my mum and I know i had hit her before . I refuse consent and that why I have to hit my mum to get her off my back again but back at again today and I refuse to not stop for her slow *** . I went to down stair anywhere , yes, my mum has hurt me a lot more then I did . I did call her a ***** and other swear word . I was not having any other it . I would went to ruin our relationship for ever then I do not want to talk ever again and will be forever pissed off point of to retuned.

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she hit me when i refuse to give her consent yet i am not even the victim and called me out for defending myself with a learning disability and also i can't even leave the house since they won't allow I to and part stay home with my younger sister and i do not even have job just fake job . can paid by stupid council

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she has hit more times i do without giving i consent and she still end up hitting attacking I and also slap . how this unfair for my right . Bump into I more then once and aslo dragging and i was crying and for having very sensitive ears . so you on my mum said is very much wrong on her ******* side . I do not hit every single person . that wrong to assume

[Isinatra]

Learn to walk away. It gives you time to cool down your frustration and anger.

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that what i been trying to but she getting even more abuser and more unfair . why being very unfair for a women with a learning that i can't even leave my house and do not even have privet time in shower or the bath anymore . my mum took these from I and very much unfair and yet you can't see that .

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

You’re right, CoolKat. I can’t see everything that goes on in your life. All I can do is reply to what you tell me. I do see you need a way to handle your frustrations without hitting. Hitting is not the answer. I’m not a doctor or therapist, but I did my best to help you. 💖

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

That is not really helpful and i just getting even more result wish online with user assuming that will hit every single person but i do not and really hate that i do not even get my own privet time in shower or bath of my mum always had to wash my hair and i dislike . i would shave off my hair

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

Sorry, CoolKat. I didn’t mean that you hit everybody. I meant your mom.

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

I meant other user on here two not you

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

Ok 😊

[BlueDaydreamer]

CoolKat211, I was emotionally abused by my ex and I would lash out at him. I have ADHD and didn't know how to respond when he would put me down or yell at me. I would throw balled up socks at him, or slap him in the stomach. He was gaslighting me and guilting me and insulting everything about me. When I finally thought, hey this is abusive, he told me I was the one who was abusive. And I realized I would never know if I were also an abuser as long as I reacted that way Somehow I got control of my actions. Then, he said I was also verbally abusive because I would call him bad names. So I stopped. I tried to defend myself without yelling or calling him names. Nothing improved on his end. He continued to manipulate me, maybe even more because to him I was becoming more passive. But the thing he couldn't do was tell me I was abusing him anymore. The thing is then he took to saying I was abusing him by not doing this or that like he wanted. But I was reading about abuse and realizing that it was more than "just my opinion" that he was abusing me. I started writing things down that he said or did. I think you should start with stop hitting your mother so you know you are not part of your own abuse.(my ex husband escalated to other types of abuse as time went on). I think you should talk to her when she is not angry about why she keeps you confined to the house. You could also call a domestic abuse hotline, if she continues to hurt you while you are no longer hurting her. I am sorry you are going through this. It is hard not to lash out when someone is hurting us.

The only thing is it might be hard to get out on your own when you have not been working, but perhaps a domestic violence shelter would help you to get started. If you feel you need more assistance than that you can call department of human services if you are in the US.

Take care, hugs!

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already gotten out of toxic relationship too . my ex boyfriend stuffier from metal heath and treated me like a beta women . My mum never stop and always trying e or say stuff that i kept saying that i dislike that word or that word . i just swear instead of hitting . being really down in moods . struggling with being single and trying to be happy even know that i want another boyfriend and that my main problem and kept having bad relationship instead of decant relationship.