My son is not feeling well: My 12 year... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

96,633 members89,744 posts

My son is not feeling well

Livelydively profile image
5 Replies

My 12 year old son isn't feeling well. He has a cough and congestion. No fever or loss of taste/smell. I am trying my best to take care if him. Slathered him in vicks. Gave him some vitamin C and making sure he stays hydrated and rests today. My husband had a head cold last week.

I feel rather guilty because my health anxiety is in high gear due to this. I am concerned I am going to get sick. I should be focused on him.

Written by
Livelydively profile image
Livelydively
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
5 Replies
Catsamaze profile image
CatsamazeADAA Volunteer

In a way your focus is on him. For you to be able to take the best care of your son you need to be healthy yourself. That’s good parenting….

Livelydively profile image
Livelydively in reply toCatsamaze

Thank you

Natsteveo profile image
Natsteveo

Having health anxiety and being around family members or anyone slightly ill sends your health anxiety through the roof with fear? It’s not a nice anxiety to have it’s horrible and when you need to be caring towards them your needing to get out the way and if we start to feel ill we hit rock bottom it’s a vicious cycle hope your son gets better soon though xx

Livelydively profile image
Livelydively in reply toNatsteveo

Thank you! I am now sick too but I have been doing all I can to stay calm and control my anxiety. I will recover soon. He seems to be doing a lot better today, still waiting for his COVID test results. We wanted to be cautious.

Smokes67 profile image
Smokes67

I'm sorry to hear about your son.But you did say your husband was sick last week ,maybe he's feeling a little better that he can help with your son.Hope everything works out.Stay strong

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

Middle-Age Son is Lonely

Hello. Yesterday was St. Valentine's Day. My son always spends that day by himself. He is now...

Worry for my son wellbeing

My son lost his managerial job due to misconduct he told me he was ready to through himself under a...
Melaxx profile image

I think my son has childhood depression.

Hello;) my son who is 10 was diagnosed with anxiety 2 years ago, we did therapy and things seemed...
hrmahoney75 profile image

Worrying about my son

Hi there! Just joined this morning. I'm going through a lot of anxiety right now. I'm worried...
megajewel profile image

My son back in the hospital

I received a call from the hosp letting me know he was in there again. I knew he woukd end up back...

Moderation team

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.