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Why do I only have four followers?There should be dozens!

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I've had severe anxiety twice in my life now in the last 2 years both times like stomped it out in less than 2 months. I know a lot of twos there ๐Ÿคฏ Anyway, I've always told myself I wanted to help as many people as my time allows to get better. I know I should be charging but I give a lot of free advice on how to overcome anxiety on this website. Come on people I can't give this stuff away forever! Maybe you should get with the program and follow me enough said. ๐Ÿคช

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Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003

lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ™ your amazing

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Hiba is on the bandwagon! Luv ya Hibba in a appropriate way only of course. ๐Ÿ˜†

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Hb2003โ€ข in reply to

Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™ you do need more followers your amazing kind and thoughtful โ˜บ๏ธ I love you in a appropriate way only too thank you for your kindness โ˜บ๏ธ

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Are you reading this people??? If you don't trust me you can trust Hibba everybody knows that!!! I don't know why I'm so gifted and it's a big responsibility but I have big shoulders I can handle it. I'm a tall handsome intelligent man! Get to know me hit the follow button!๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿฆƒ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Hb2003โ€ข in reply to

Lol mr knight ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Well Hib I don't like to brag....๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Hb2003โ€ข in reply to

Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Hb2003โ€ข in reply to

I sometimes like to brag in a good way ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Doesn't hurt to hold your head up extra high once in awhile ๐Ÿ˜†

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jessatsoโ€ข in reply to

God, I had such a problem. Every time I watched who followed me and who didn't until I decided to buy some and not bother. But logically, I wanted loyal followers so as not to lower my status. That's why I chose this company famoid.com/buy-instagram-fo... to help me fulfill my desires. I paid for 500 followers, and in a few days, I received a double just because the followers were active and allowed me to grow to more through comments and likes. Since then, I have not been afraid of losing my followers. You will already see how it is more comfortable for you.

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Pugglesworth

Just because I like your fish.

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What can I say I'm also a master Salmon fisherman but I don't like to brag...

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Pugglesworthโ€ข in reply to

I can see that.

:P

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54โ€ข in reply toPugglesworth

I like your dogs! :)

Isinatra profile image
Isinatraโ€ข in reply tohypercat54

what dogs? I dont see any dogs. lol

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Oh my mistake sorry. Trying to respond to everybody I got you mixed up didn't realize I was going to open this big a can of worms with my post. ๐Ÿค—

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Dolphin14โ€ข in reply to

I love salmon

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Of course you do salmon is a delicatessen for a dolphin. Now hit the follow button. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Dolphin14โ€ข in reply to

Hahaha

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TangledUpIn

You have a sense of humor so I'll follow you๐Ÿ˜

Lazy_dog_lover profile image
Lazy_dog_lover

First time readerโ€ฆ not interested in this approach.

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Rafiki11โ€ข in reply toLazy_dog_lover

I think this post is tongue in cheek. Being silly and playful.

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Thank you yeah trying to have a little fun and help people some people don't get it you do. ๐Ÿ‘

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

I am still not sure whether your post is serious, not serious, or half and half?

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You be you have a nice day

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I'm serious at trying to help people but I like to mix a little humor in with it. I get that line I can't give this away all day people from a Sham Wow commercial with some dork I seen on TV. ๐Ÿ˜†

Is this about how many followers you can get? Sounds like a commercial. Are you certified to help treat anxiety since you should be charging for this advice and not giving it away. Could you give us a sample of how you're getting rid of anxiety in people. Little bit suspicious of this post. Thank you.

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He is just being silly. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Thank you Catgirl yes trying to have a little fun not everyone on board with that. ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†

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Itโ€™s ok. Lots of reasons for that. Donโ€™t let it stop you!

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If you don't have a good sense of humor I don't think you're going to care for me much I'm getting them vibes from you brother have a nice day.

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That's where you're wrong about me. Trust me.

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Midori

Why do you feel you need followers? It's not a competition, I don't have a clue how many followers I have; I just come here to help.

Cheers, Midori

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Because I can be a big help with anybody suffering from hell's anxiety and probably anxiety in general. I can't help everybody but those who private message me I will always respond have a nice day

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I'd like to know how you help people from a different location? I think I would prefer help from a face to face counselor. More personal for me to actually interact face to face. I can give opinions but I cannot say that what I say will a actually help anyone because we are not suppose to diagnose but just offer opinions.

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I never said anything about diagnosing people if a counselor works good for you face to face I have no arguments with that.

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Isinatraโ€ข in reply to

I suffer with that hells anxiety. And im having alot of fun right now. Thank you, Timepass. Ill be hitting the follow button about right now. Smiley face. Girl on Surfboard.

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Thank you much kindness and support. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

Many of us help a lot of people here so maybe we should all be paid? :D

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You should not me you help far more than I.

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

I have been here a lot longer than you and am happy to share what I have learned, so for me it's all good.

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

Have you been on the site before? You seem a bit familiar. Just curious.

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You know me hypercat. ๐Ÿ˜‰ Remember mistakenly I thought you were a man had you confused with another poster.

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

Yes but that was under your current alias. I was curious whether you had been on the site before under another name as you seem familiar.

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Nope time pass is the only screen name I've ever used.

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

Ok. I hope you didn't mind me asking?

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Oh heck no I don't mind you asking. May the force be with you oh beautiful one. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

Oh I like you! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

How often do you go on this site? I've come on here looking for ppl to help/support/chat during my all too frequent anxiety attacks, yet I don't recall you responding ๐Ÿค” I'm not one to turn down free advice, tho- hope to chat with you at some point ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜บ

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Thanks for the reply yeah I tried to help as many as possible but my busy job and weird hours prevent that. I will always respond to people who privately message me. I'm rather proud of myself I got over anxiety severe anxiety in less than 2 months time. I do have a lot of psychology training but no degrees. In my post I was trying to be funny and grab people's attention. Some I guess when they get depressed or suffer from anxiety lose some of their humorous side been there done that.

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Jonesie123

You seem to be stuck on 13 now - you'll want to be known as the Messiah next ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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13 doesnt get you that title?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

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Jonesie123โ€ข in reply to

Were there not 13 disciples?

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Copy not trying to get hundreds just trying to help people out mainly with health anxiety lot of things I'm not qualified to deal with like suicidal tendencies severe depression rape bipolar. I'm not a religious person either I do envy those who are true believers I happen to believe in science.

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Jonesie123โ€ข in reply to

I'm sure there are a great deal of lifetime sufferers here that want to know your secret to success? Share the knowledge!

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Copy that will share more in the future at work now working my tail off.

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I agree. Why private messages? We are open on here.

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Well just because I can't follow everybody and that way when someone messages me I'm sure to see the post.

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I've seen too many people get hurt on these sites by someone claiming to have something they have to messenger them. Myself included. I've seen people get hurt on posts alone. I'm not going to name names because there's one on here who would be totally destroyed by anybody's claims. This should be an open forum for everyone to see. Why hide it? I don't want to see anyone get hurt. No I'm not the police but the hurting others have to stop. I had just got one person who messaged me saying there was someone messaging them that their pot heals anxiety and trying to sell it. That's why im concerned when things have to be private.

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Pigletpmd1

I donโ€™t see a place to follow you.

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If you want to follow someone you click their icon and then hit the follow button not sure if I explain that right but if not let me know and I'll try again.

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mentalcase

I don't follow anyone and I'm on this site to get help and talk to others because they are the only ones I have to talk to. I have have anxiety, plus depression and other mental illnesses. I'm on medication for my anxiety and it's my miracle drug. I never worry about anything. I've always said that I could be a therapist because of everything I've been through all my life. I couldn't be a marriage counselor though because I can't seem to get that right, after 5 marriages lol. Thank you everyone for helping me and to make this a great forum. PS, I don't charge for my therapy lol.

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I hear you loud and clear. I'm over my anxiety just trying to help people and be a little humorous and maybe get a chuckle out of someone now and then. I get it some people I may rub the wrong way and that's okay. ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜

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mentalcaseโ€ข in reply to

Oh yes, not intentionally, but I've rubbed some people on here the wrong way. I don't worry about it though because that's their problem if they take me the wrong way.

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Up to 14 followers in one day's time not too shabby thank you to all hope I can be of some help. I always respond to those who privately message me. ๐Ÿ‘

You have made me smile and even laugh with this post, Timepass. You have done your job, I think. ๐Ÿ˜‰ Thanks for the help. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Oh, I don't follow others, nor am I a leader. This forum is awesome and I always feel better after a visit. Now carry on, I am rooting for you! ๐Ÿ‘

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Thank you Snowdaze! Yeah not trying to be a leader just trying to help more people especially with health anxiety. So glad you got Dr Claire Week's book. Trying to mix in a little humor with some tough love too know that'll rub some people raw it that's okay. ๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒž

You are welcome, Timepass. We must always find some humor......laughter is healing, so ,so healing. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

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Sillysausage234

I used to get anxiety so bad Ide physically soil myself if someone knocked on my door...but I read claire weeks...get help with your nerves and Iโ€™m glad to say no accidents since ......p.s. donโ€™t anyone follow me as Iโ€™m on here because I havenโ€™t got a clue where Iโ€™m going

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That's a good one! Yeah I used to get a electric shock down my spine in the evening laying in bed after eating just closing my reading glasses and the little noise it made. I also remember peeing in the toilet and it hurt my ears so bad I could hardly stand it. Anxiety can really mess with your nerves.

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply toSillysausage234

Hi where have you been hiding? :D xx

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Sillysausage234โ€ข in reply tohypercat54

Hi friend ๐Ÿ˜„.....had my wellies on getting at one with my garden......I phoned you on Friday to go for fish and chips but you didnโ€™t answer

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply toSillysausage234

Oh d*** and hell. I missed my chance there.... mind you I had haddock and chips last Thursday anyway. And a wonderful huge beer battered cod and chips the previous week. Bet your fish and chips aren't as good. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜œ xx

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Sillysausage234โ€ข in reply tohypercat54

My local is actually really good.....had a large cod and chips about 3 weeks ago ...are you and your gang back playing darts yet? Iโ€™m hoping to go to my little local cinema soon and fall asleep when the film starts

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply toSillysausage234

No unfortunately. No signs yet. Really missing it. x

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Well maybe I should have laid low a little longer hard keeping up with all these posts.

Ha Ha! You silly sausage! โ˜บ๏ธ Thanks for the laugh.

I am in the process of re-reading my book, it is helping. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

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I also get a weekly newsletter from ....love your I.b.s. Seems to be helping too....glad itโ€™s helping you ..๐Ÿ‘

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Pugglesworth

Wow, this post sure gained a lot of traction!

I'm thankful that people saw the humor here. Humor, it seems, is a key element in healing. Not taking ourselves, our life or the small amount of time we have on this spinning, blue sphere hurtling through the vastness of space and time too seriously. That statement in no way minimizes anything we've been through, are going through or will go through. Quite the opposite in fact.

Humor breaks through barriers. Laughing at ourselves and/or circumstances helps us develop as human beings. Being amused is a key element of happiness. And happiness, well-being and freedom from suffering is something we all desire. Before you criticize someone walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and have their shoes.

:D

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Yeah I opened up can of worms here. Glad most saw the humor in it too. Like I told another poster when I said I can't give this stuff away for free people I stole that line from a ShamWow commercial. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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Isinatra

Keep those cards and letters coming, Timepass. Much appreciated.๐Ÿ‘

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Marshall64 profile image
Marshall64

I haven't seen anything about an incentive to be a follower here with like cash or free membership to fruit of the month club.

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Dolphin14โ€ข in reply toMarshall64

Funny

I was looking for the fresh salmon

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Isinatraโ€ข in reply toDolphin14

๐Ÿคฃ

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It's a heart healthy meal ๐Ÿคช

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hypercat54โ€ข in reply to

I don't have a heart...... ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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Isinatraโ€ข in reply toMarshall64

๐Ÿคฃ

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LOL that's a good idea maybe fruit Roll-Ups or a mixed bag of nuts too?

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Marshall64โ€ข in reply to

You had me at fruit roll-ups....

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TangledUpInโ€ข in reply toMarshall64

He had me at a mixed bag of nuts๐Ÿ˜‰

Imagine that. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

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Sillysausage234โ€ข in reply to

Any tips how to overcome them kind of panic attacks ?....apart from wear a diaper I mean

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You stole my line I was going to say get yourself some Depends. I never crap my pants with a panic attack. I did however have tingling in my back that radiated down through my butt to my legs that made me feel like just getting up and running to the hospital. When I started getting better and stopping the panic attacks I would fill my sink with ice and water and dunk my head in it several times until I felt some of the symptoms subsiding and then 15 minute YouTube meditation videos after that.

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The tingling in my back felt like maybe I had some cancer on my spinal column that was messing with my back and lower thighs. But it turned out to be anxiety severe anxiety.

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54

Can I have both please? ๐Ÿ˜‚

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misslillie

How to follow?

When you click the icon next to my name timepass it'll take you to another page where you can click follow.

Are you really hustling a depression website for algorithm gainz?!๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฅ‡๐Ÿฅ‡

I wish I had that kind of knowledge to make extra money through my computer skills but unfortunately no

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Letโ€™s say you have a โ€œdepressionโ€ help page on Facebook. You gain 7 million followers on that page. Thatโ€™s a lot of people for advertising to reach.....

Your popular page has just become a marketable entity to the right advertisers.

Thereโ€™s a girl on this site that I truly believe she uses this site to fine tune posts and see which ones will get the most reaction and then take the same post to a different social media site for algorithm gainz.

Worst kind of person on earth.

There are people that come on this site to escape their confusion of death and despair not flaunt sparkle selfies for likes and shares.

If I have labeled your intentions wrong than I am truly sorry and I hope you stay positive and have a killer day๐Ÿ™.

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