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what the right .....constructive coach......can do

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this isnt- a religious statement

but...........i/we have plenty of abusive coaches/authority figuures/society/life/biochemisty- whatever the source.........we also

know the difference when someone believes in us.........

from the teachers or coaches perspective.....your goals are yours....not up to me .....to think u have to be perfect or a certain level or a super star or whatever yur thinking.....im not ...thinking that at all......if u need extra time.do it...if u are a star-go for it...if u need a tutor- why would i care? (hold it against u---like im great in Spanish????ha.....) people stall in certian areas and soar in ohters......have good day and not.....ya......thats why coaches are humans.............players who been there.......ya....so what no offense.......

progress is measured .....at each persons rate........u have the courage to participate.....dont u get that......everyone has test anxiety, everyone has doubts and fears ..............tahts why we practice it its rote like musicians........not for perfeddtion.....because then................after i practice whatever.........then i know im ready.........same with studies.....get a study buddy....get whatever....participate......dont worry where u are relatie to others as

coaches.........know.......your journey..............i trained Koreans to ride..............terfrifed ......of horses.....................terrrifed.......ya.................so??? are they laughing at the old coach? no.....they....unlike the cocky super entitled..............listen........we work on the fundamentals.............any subject.............................we blow by the super stars every time in six weeks...................it not me...................its the system....keep it simple.....practice the fundamentals..............................then increase teh complexity

u dont .............have to be anything spectacular.....true coaches.........

how bad.....do u want ......your goal...................i given hundreds of extra help sesssions....

why ..........................would i care??

i want u..................to reach................ur goals..............

i dont care..............how fast.........(life is complicated) ......dont make

it hard.........keep .............it simple.................has noting to do .....with intellitende......

the

fundamentals............hammer them...............(done it hundreds of time and no one ever listens and with all my students and horses.................simple is understandable simple works...esp under pressure.)

u ...................brintg your potential

potential

and your work ethic

everyone has fears

eveyond has doubts

see u tomoorow..........

no......i said.......................U...talking to U .........see u tomorrow........8am sharp

(ill be there at 6 - this isnt a speach......done this hundreds of times) .......find

the people.....who dont increase doubts in u..........but.........believe

in u........................

most people know this.....

stay away.....from the critids......they arent players.....just know it alls..........

practice.........is the best solution to offset universal anxeity and doubts......

go.......

(ur coach....never is disappointed in u........we know...the journey.....its a marathon not a sprint(

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