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When many things are going wrong, what can we see that is right?

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People coming together on here to lift others up

My beautiful kiddos sleeping peacefully

Candles lit

Sun shining

Cuddling Coco

Our problems could be worse

Hope lingering ready to help us out of the dark

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c-mac

we watched a kitten for a friend for a few days, hoping we might adopt her. But my daughter's allergies were too bad. Still we had a very sweet time with our intrepid explorer.

My daughter is in anguish because BTS is going on hiatus. Her friends are kidding her about it, but she told us privately that being so immersed in them helps her avoid thinking about wanting to hurt herself. We let her stay home from school the next day and she and I had a couple teary heartfelt discussions on the couch. As long as she can have teary heartfelt discussions about it, I think she'll be alright.

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Starrlight in reply toc-mac

what does BTS stand for? What is hiatus?

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Lve2dance in reply toStarrlight

Its a Korean pop group.. Hiatus is a short break

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Starrlight in reply toLve2dance

thanks!

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Lve2dance in reply toStarrlight

😊.. They are a really good group.

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Starrlight in reply toc-mac

I recall feeling the same way about my fav music as a teen. Yeah I feel you are right she’s open with you, which is a great sign.

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Arymretep

Hi, I was feeling rather sorry for myself last week because of chronic pain etc, then I watched a documentary about a rugby y player, ROB BURROWwho has MND, motor neurone disease , he is only just 40 and unable to speak , walk or do anything for himself, the documentary showed him and his family his wife who is an Angel and three beautiful little children , and how they all cope with this devastating disease, I urge everyone to watch this , my OH who is a 6ft 5 and a former rugby player was reduced to tears, it’s probably on U tube , it will put things into perspective.

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Starrlight in reply toArymretep

I felt the same way as you when I ran across a video of a woman born without arms and she’s amazing uses her feet to brush her teeth do dishes etc and she’s a ballerina. Put in perspective what I’m actually capable of even during really hard times.

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Starrlight

ok so I have lived without a dryer for 20 days and finally I had a new one installed I am so relieved 😅 I love dryers like I’ve never loved before

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Dolphin14 in reply toStarrlight

Can I bring my laundry over? If it's not too much trouble could you make me lunch too?

❤️🐬

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Starrlight in reply toDolphin14

Bring all the laundry you want! I don’t care! I’m having lunch you can have some -it’s Pea Protein with hemp and alfalfa greens, and rice powder! Ha!

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Dolphin14 in reply toStarrlight

On my way... 🐬

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Starrlight in reply toDolphin14

Awesomeness! It’s going to be party timmmmmmmmme!!!!!!!!

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Dolphin14 in reply toStarrlight

Yup let's do this! I have my pj.

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Starrlight in reply toDolphin14

Such a good idea! Sleep over! Let’s tell spooky stories and watch a funny movie afterwards to un-scare ourselves.

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HAHA!!! You are so cute.. ok you got it

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Starrlight in reply toDolphin14

heehee

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primrose81

This is beautiful Starrlight, have copied out last 2 lines. Again thank you for your positivity and I am very pleased your drier is fixed! You must so need it with littl’uns xxx

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Starrlight in reply toprimrose81

thank you Primrose for seeing the beauty in words I shared… and thank YOU for your positivity!!! Thank you yup very much needed this dryer! Now I have piles of laundry to do but I don’t mind because I am just so thankful that I’m now able to do it.

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Starrlight in reply toNothing_but_books

wow I love that. ❤️💙💜 I don’t feel like I can make it on the outside either but keep hope that I’ll be okay… what does the video mean to you NBP

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Nothing_but_books in reply toStarrlight

I love this film. It contains so much pain and horror, as much of life does. It takes us somewhere very dark.

Red (the man you see) tells Andy that, where they live, hope can be a dangerous thing. Here, Red finds hope within himself for the first time. Andy's strength and tenacity inspire him. His journey to find his friend culminates: "I hope."

I learn, watching this film, we are not alone in our feelings. We touch people in ways we may never know. We can bear what we have to, by being strong. We can find hope.

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Starrlight in reply toNothing_but_books

Beautifully said. You are amazing. I love it 😍

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Nothing_but_books in reply toStarrlight

There's a tear in my eye. Thank you.

Thank you for another healing post.

Sometimes bad things can be good on the flip side. I don't like the cold weather, or the isolation it brings. But today, with the weather in the low 40s, I can get refrigerator things at the grocery, and leave them in the car.

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Starrlight in reply toNothing_but_books

So true and we learn from the seemingly bad too. Good job in finding the positive. I love winter personally. I like the isolation sometimes.

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