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A year ago I met a 65-year-old woman who is having a bad day I try not to bother her but I could not turn my back on her and she was crying because she thought she was too old and too ugly and no man wWant her

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We chatted we talked in church and I found out she was actually a brilliant wonderful wonderful teacher and the most charming wonderful person there and love the kids very protective and pretty much teacher of of the state the problem is her mother ruined her self image about her luxe or she has no problems with to the point where for the last year I can’t get a hold of her I cannot talk to her at Jesus as a friend because she’s so ashamed She’s so ashamed of her crows feet or you know she doesn’t like 20 and yet anyone look anyone would see how warm and kind of funny and charming and how great she is this his teacher and on and on and on she said absolutely wonderful wonderful wonderful wonderful person funny and protective of the kids and funny and but her mother destroyed her on her luxe on her luxe or appearance on her appearance and so I could’ve had a friend to talk to even as a penpal even if it’s just a friend and for the last year I’ve completely I’ve tried everything in the hole I’ve tried i’ve tried everything just to have a friend in her and she OK I can’t get a hold of her so I lost a wonderful wonderful friend as a neighbor this is a friend somebody to talk to my age somebody who would relate she was so funny and so protective of the kids and so funny about how she did it with a huge loss what a huge huge loss I just so sad that I never was able to get her to realize that I was never able to get her to realize what a wonderful person she was a friend and just as a friend not just as a friend so I lost a wonderful wonderful friend because I was society and her mother about this perfectAnd 2° I get about it from us guys point of you I don’t care with your perfect beauty or not this is not where were mature guys and will last a wonderful friend I lost a wonderful friend

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You did a good deed by reaching out to her. She will probably always remember your kindness.

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Tks helps sad isn’t it when people don’t know how much they mean To us. But thanks hero’s a lot

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It is sad when others don't realize how much they mean to us.

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