Happy not sad!

[Roaming_Randomly]

I am an angel for the people when i am happy , positive and understanding ... same people hate me when i show my vulnerable side.. people expect me to understand them and when it my turn to be in that place they backoff. They show as if my sadness or anger is reason of their sadness and anger. Or they will make you feel guilty about being sad. Then i am not an angel. Then i become devil. Specially when they are your loved ones. ;(

[Roaming_Randomly]

I know that ...I understand the consequences of that. I was trying to say that i feel like that. I think am built to think like that.

[Imaaan]

Correct me if I'm wrong, my understanding is that you're a compassionate individual who selflessly gives to others. You're there during their ups and downs and give wholeheartedly but it isn't always reciprocated. And that's where the hurt and sadness comes from. Giving 💯 and not getting it back in return always hurts. Especially when it's from your loved ones. Maybe you can speak to them individually and highlight how they make you feel and how you go out of your way to be there for them during their lows. Some will be receptive and some may not but at least you tried to open up their eyes.

[Roaming_Randomly in reply to Imaaan]

I am so glad you got it right... thank you for understanding .. <3

[Imaaan in reply to Roaming_Randomly]

I understood because I've been in a similar boat.

[Roaming_Randomly in reply to Imaaan]

I wish you a good luck and great success in life!!

[Imaaan in reply to Roaming_Randomly]

Very kind of you to say. Back at'cha sweety

[Roaming_Randomly]

I assure you it is not as offensive as you are thinking... it was like , i like to be kind and helpful and understanding bcz i expect others to do the same..i know the pain of getting unkind, unhelpful people thats y i am like that .. i love myself too.. <3