I'm just doomed to be alone forever

[MasterofDisaster3]

I've ended my toxic relationship and broken out of the prison of darkness. Only now to be stuck all alone shivering in the cold with no one to talk to or hold me. I don't ever want him back but I think he wae the best I can do. I'll never find anyone to love me again.

[BlueMoon29]

First off, what a big step to walk away. That is so hard to do. You should be proud of yourself for having the strength to do so.Never say never. Life has many surprises in it, both good and bad. The only way you'll stay alone is if that's what you choose whether it be consciously or not.

People come and go from your life for a reason. Maybe being alone is what you need right now so you can focus on taking care of yourself.

Best of luck to you and remember you are not alone

😊

[gilded_masquerade]

I know how scary or dreadful this can be but be proud of being able to pull yourself out of such a situation, it’s incredibly hard.

From the last two lines of your post, I feel like that’s what he told you or at the very least made you feel and I’m here to tell you that it’s not true in any shape or form.

My ex did the same and almost four years later, I’m proving him wrong.

You deserve happiness and the absolute best despite what your ex or your inner critic says and I promise you; you WILL find someone who will love every single thing about you it just may take some time.

I’m so proud of you for leaving, it takes a lot of courage and strength to do. You’re not alone as long as you’re here, we’ll help out however we can.

Take care of yourself 🖤

[Hidden]

Hey MasterofDisaster, how have you been??? It can take a lot of courage to end a relationship. And then it can be like who can I talk to anymore??? I know it's rough. My family relationships as well as others have become so bad that at times I feel like I want to cut everyone out of my life and then there will just be nobody. We are always here for you on here. Take the comments that resonate with you and ignore the ones that don't. You're all right with me.🙂

[Hidden]

Sometimes good things are wrapped around bad circumstances. You need to study yourself. Seems you can use this time to learn who you are. People are not the same and some are good by themselves. I don't have problems with people who are not great by themselves but you should try and see so that the next person will be what you need for you not just what you want.

[Hidden]

I know how you feel as I am feeling the same way right now. I recently got out of a toxic relationship with my ex and it just sucks. I also feel like I will never find anyone ever again. I am not good at talking and I am not particularly attractive. Poor self esteem plagues me. But you deserve better than to be abused. I hope you know this. And if the relationship was bad then it's best that you are free from that because you deserve to be treated with respect and with love. Nothing more. Take your time to grieve. I will share a story with you. I yesterday was laying down and felt my ex next to me. I literally felt her next to me and I broke down because I wanted to hold her and tell her I loved her but she was nothing but terrible to me. She was abusive and took advantage of me. But I know all to well the pain you feel right now. it hurts very deeply. Give yourself time and make sure to spend this time focusing on you. You are worth investing in and you are more than enough.

[MasterofDisaster3]

Thank you guys for your responses. Those of you whose responses I can see right now you were all most helpful. I appreciate you all and your kind words.