Much better

[CalicoPurpl90]

The situation is much better between me and my friend. It seems it was mostly miscommunication between us that was occurring. We met up last night in person in a parking lot. Because of covid, we didn't hug, even though I really wanted to, and we kept our masks on. He had a christmas gift for me too which surprised me and I was happy to receive a gift from him. This friend is also my former boss. I found out from him last night that I am the only employee from the store that he gave his new number to. I found that interesting, and I realized after meeting him in person last night that I still have a crush on him. I was hoping the crush would fade by now, but instead I just find myself feeling more attracted to him for some reason. He commented that I looked good while looking me up and down when we met. I told him the same even though I could tell that he had gained weight, but I still found him attractive. I wouldn't be entirely surprised if something were to happen the next time we met up. I don't want to complicate our friendship. I care about him a lot as a friend. Should I just take things as they come?

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Take life and relationships one day at a time, planning a relationship never works, go with the flow, especially if you like him

Never be in so much of a hurry, if you are too keen that can kill a positive pleasant relationship, Enjoy, try not to frighten him away

BOB

[CalicoPurpl90 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Bob. I don't think I'm going to frighten him away. I do like him and feel attracted to him, but I would never force myself on someone or try and make someone like me. I would much rather prefer to go with the flow and see how things go. I am sensing that he might like me a little bit too, but I don't want to rush things. Whatever happens. I'm just glad to have him as a friend in my life right now.