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pro's and con's of off-topic replies

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2 points of view:

1) replies to a post should remain on the OP's (original poster) topic.

2) conversations tend to flow on their own path, and go off-topic - which makes for interesting and dynamic conversations.

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I respect #1 - but i love when #2 happens (i'm so punny), because diversions can get very interesting, and informative to all concerned in unpredictable ways.

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thoughts?

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Hb2003

I think that you have a right to be off topic sometimes I mean I was taking about pixie stick recipe to talking about how I don’t like South Park because they mocked people with Tourette’s to books to lemon meringue pie

in reply to Hb2003

Yes it is up to the OP feeling, it is nice to ask to consider their feeling 🤗🙏

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

tx, Hiba - i think when you do that - we all learn a little bit more about you personally - those off topic comments speak to who you are ....

and if we know you better - then i think our on-topic replies could be more tailored to the you that we know....

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

I am interested in Nero stuff and learning about disability’s conditions and syndromes i have a friend who has Tourette’s and I have a brother with autism it’s a learning process 😊

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

agreed, Hiba;

LIVING should be a learning process...

unfortunately for all of us.... many would rather live their own truth in their head - and force it upon us to justify their need to think that way....

try not to over think what i just said.... i already did it for all of us!!!!

in reply to 13ga

Soooo philosopher..... in everything n everything lol

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13ga in reply to

well... philosophically speaking...

i will talk about anything, and everything - no limits.

i will joke about anything, and everything - few limits.

each of these things, often get me in trouble.

i don't like being in trouble...

but i'm usually in trouble, because of the above...

so i therefore must like being in trouble...

and that's my thoughts on philosophy!

in reply to 13ga

Because you always get to level 10 emotion and Daz when You get overwhelmed. Bring it down to a 5 I would say 🤣🤗🙏

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13ga in reply to

yep - soooo true that.... i think i get to 10, because i'm usually 0 on the outside....

and it builds up inside, and when it hits 10, i erupt!

i think i have to learn what 5 IS... :-/

in reply to 13ga

Just practice.... makes perfect 🤗👍

For some reason, when I read “when#2 happens” it makes me lmao 😂

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Lol 😂😂

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Meme So childish 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

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Hb2003 in reply to

I laugh at silly stuff too 😂😊

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😘😘👍

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❤️❤️

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13ga in reply to

#1 - i smile when you lyao!

#2 - have i told you i like how you think lately? - because i do, do (like how you think)!!!! ROTF

#3 - not only do great minds think alike, but apparently they're in the gutter too. 8-) besides ... fun people hang out in the gutter.... just gotta stay upstream of item #2....

in reply to 13ga

It started with “when#2 happens” followed by “punny”, my mind just went somewhere else and it hit my funny bone 🤣🤣😂🙏

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well --- it DOES --- it WAS --- and my mind LIVES somewhere else - i often know not where!

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of all the things i've lost - i miss my mind the most !!!!!

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😆😅🤣😂

in reply to 13ga

Just give ur head a good squeeze 🤣🤣😂😂

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uh oh..... oh no you didn't - go there !!!

🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂

but if i do...... i might hurt my brain !!!!

🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂

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hypercat54 in reply to 13ga

I joke abut most things too. You are a person after my own heart. 😁❤

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13ga in reply to hypercat54

i'm glad to hear that, hypercat! - we gotta laugh.... especially these days.... otherwise we'd be crying (at least i would ;o)

spread the humor!

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hypercat54 in reply to 13ga

Oh I do all the time. I had to start using a walking stick a while ago and make jokes about it ie having a conversation whilst walking with friends who are much fitter. They end up going faster so I have to shout, then I shut up and wait for them to notice I'm trailing behind then they stop for me. Rinse and repeat. Hilarious :)

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13ga in reply to hypercat54

lol - sooner or later, they'll learn.... maybe... :-)

Can I vote for both 🤣🤗🙏?!

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13ga in reply to

heck - this is america - not only can you vote for both - you can vote multiple times!!!

and if you don't like the results - you can sue until you get your way!

that's the american way!! ;o)

in reply to 13ga

When it’s punny, there’s no question asked!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

in reply to 13ga

Sorry 13ga, I’m in the mood of giggle, everything sounds funny to me now honestly 🤣🤣😮😂

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GMF - you should know by now... no sorry's needed - i love to hear you giggle.... at least the giggle i hear in my head that belongs to you... you have a charming, and funny giggle BTW....

the occasional snort makes me laugh too.... :-)

in reply to 13ga

The snort is from Sonya, my sidekick 🤣😂

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sonya - omg - seriously LOL'g!!!

at different times each 1 of my 3 - snores! ever hear a cat snore - it's f'g hysterical!!!

ever watch a cat snore? it's a rip roaring riot!!!!

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for clarity - you were talking about your cat, right?

and not the voices in your head??

am i the only one that has voices in my head?

am i the only one that names them?

🤣😂🤣😂

in reply to 13ga

🤣🤣😂I always have voices in my head and they come in peace 😂🙏

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13ga in reply to

(they come in peace)

my voices come in pieces.

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13ga in reply to

hmmm.... maybe i'll name the voice i have of you in my head - sonya !!!!

GMF is such a mouthful! :-)

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By now you guys are my friends, can call me Koko 🤗🙏

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out-standing!

but are you sure that you're not sonya, and your cat's name is koko????

i love that name! is it short for something?

and btw - you can call me Rob.

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Just Koko 🤣

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13ga in reply to

that's so cool; i really do like it...

in reply to 13ga

Good! U don’t have a choice 🤣. In order to get to level 5, u might need to meditate twice, once in the morning n once at night 😂🙏

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or 4x :-|

Thank you 13ga and Hiba make me laugh so much tonight 🤗❤️

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13ga in reply to

right back at ya!

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Dolphin14

I agree about the off topic conversation... I get involved in many... gives a spin on things and we do learn more about each other. Lightens our burdens a bit.

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hypercat54

Hi the rules do say we shouldn't go off topic when replying to posts. If someone posts about a serious matter then I agree with this as it is someone else's post and it would be disrespectful.But if they are talking generally or it's a jokey post then I do love the off topic humour which can follow.

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13ga in reply to hypercat54

agree hyper;

if serious post, i'm trying harder than ever to stay on topic...

old habits tho.... ;-)

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