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Hello, i'm new here. Maybe a lot of you have heard about this question but still i wanna ask that here...How do you cope with self-hatred? Because lately ive been feeling so down and i'm so disappointed with myself. Sometimes i feel like i dont deserve to be alive at all. I feel like i'm so bad at my job, im not doing good enough. I feel like a failure whole the time....im constantly feeling sad and don't know what to do

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FearIsALiar

Welcome to the group!! I struggle with this as well at times.

You are doing the best you can with work. Be gentle with yourself. You deserve to be alive.

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Hatelife34

U gotta stop beat yourself up u are enough and ur doing ur best u deserve to be happy u need install positive thoughts in ur mind try podcast or affirmations daily those can help with that listen to them at night when ur going sleep

thank you so much for your opinion. the problem is no matter what i do, i always have that bad thoughts basically about anything even the most simple thing...when i eat, when i do house chores or playing games. its just sort of appeared in my head

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AnxM

Really great advice from wbiC. I hope it helps you.Talking to yourself in a critical way can do a lot of mental damage. I struggle with this too.

Try to be kind to yourself - speak to yourself the way you would to a good friend who needs your support.

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