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I keep remembering this guy i used to know. But he told my friend that he is not good for me. Now i feel hurt like I'm not worth the fight or the opportunity. I don't even have the chance to be his friend. And i keep thinking about him. It's strange it's like i miss him even though it's been 3 years since i last saw him he was getting married and i never thought that would matter to me. I don't even know what we had. I use to seek around to kiss him but that's all that ever happened and nobody knew that. Now he is divorced but he said im to good for him. I feel unwanted and we were never a thing. Why does someone with depression always expect to be loved back and ended up feeling unworthy and unloved. Why is it so hard to accept we need love too.

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I think it’s time you move on from this guy. It’s not that you are not worth fighting for it that he is not right for you. The right guy will want you and not make you feel this way. You are wanted, you just need to find the right guy. Try showing yourself some love and then the the right guy might come along when you least suspect it. Good luck.

Life can be so difficult when we meet someone we like, however the problem js in this case He must have had a great deal of respect for you and therefore felt unworthy

Sometimes however it can be an easy way out if the person did feel the relationship was ok for him and it was easier to say what He said. You could possibly bump into him and open up a conversation with him, it may be after loosing his wife things may now be different although do not feel upset if I walks away.

We all go through similar things when we meet someone, I used to enjoy dancing and on occasions I would go out on dates with some. Three dates seemed to be sufficient to work out if the relationship would have prospects to last until we got used to each other or move on.

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