Need advice

[Krisroberts]

Learning how to cope with my husband being put in jail without it being his fault. It's my first time going threw this I am really struggling depressed all the time very sad. Anxiety is extremely high right now I just want him home.

[anxiousoutcast]

I’m so sorry. Have you contacted the innocent project?

[Krisroberts in reply to anxiousoutcast]

Innocent project

[anxiousoutcast in reply to Krisroberts]

Yes look it up there amazing!

[Krisroberts in reply to anxiousoutcast]

Can u send me a link

[anxiousoutcast]

I don’t know what he was accussed of but there is thousands of resources out there. I think trying to help him out would help u have some control over the situation and lesson the anxiety.

[Krisroberts in reply to anxiousoutcast]

Yes it would and I have been working my mind every second of the day to get things straightened out for my amazing husband

[Bluetj]

Sorry about your troubles. I am sending you a private message.

[Krisroberts in reply to Bluetj]

Thank you

[Krisroberts]

Thank you my anxiety has been really really high lately and I don't like it

[PNIAuthor60]

This must seem so disorienting to you - you haven't mentioned the term of incarceration but as many have said, there are resources out there.

It is important for you to take care of yourself during this time, it is a heavily emotional experience so eating nutritionally, getting the proper amount of sleep, exercise when you can, surround yourself with a community of support.

You also haven't mentioned the charges and depending on what they are and any media coverage, your family may be monitored and even interviewed for information. Always have a supporting witness with you - we have trouble remembering things often when under stress like this.

You might benefit from some counselling as well, especially grief counselling as it pertains to this unexpected turn of events and whatever your husband may experience inside the facility where he is.

If the two of you can weather this storm together, you will experience a new depth of love that will amaze the two of you. Does your husband have a good lawyer - what is his take on things? Often lawyers don't discuss spousal information without a release, your husband could initiate that if he desired.

Our anxiety understandably skyrockets because of the shock of the situation and the crippling feeling of being powerless and wondering with concern what could happen to our loved one inside a penal facility. Depending on his term of incarceration and his experience inside, he could be deeply affected and need every ounce of your support and that of a therapist upon release.

I hope and pray that you both find the support that you need for this time, apart.

[Inmyhead247 in reply to PNIAuthor60]

Came across this post. Have any new advice for someone going through this situation?

[PNIAuthor60 in reply to Inmyhead247]

I gave the best advice up ahead.

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[Inmyhead247]

Hey, I came across this post and was just wondering how you were able to cope with things.

[mvillarreal]

I'm sorry you're going through a difficult situation like this right now. As people below have said, do not sign anything. I hope things get better for you soon.