I’m scared I’m starting to fall out of love again.
I just began a new relationship a month ago (we’ve been talking for a lot longer, about 6 months) and I’m starting to feel anxious about our relationship.
In my last relationship I fell out of love and tried to force things until it kind of blew up on me.
When I think about my new girlfriend and I, and our lives together, I see us making amazing memories and being together for a long, long time.
But in the moment, I feel uncomfortable when she kisses and cuddles me, and I overthink to the point where I feel stressed. Sometimes I feel annoyed and anxious also, with normal things she says or does.
Last night, for example, she was telling me about some wedding stuff she was excited about and I got super anxious and uncertain about our relationship. We had talked about that stuff before but yesterday I just couldn’t help but get anxious.
Any advice?