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why is my ex so hell-bent on taking me off of every social media that exists? i literally haven’t done anything. he’s the one that pulled the rug out from underneath me and took me by surprise by ending things. we were together for one year and were planning on making it a forever kind of thing.

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Laurennnnnnn

It could be any reason, boy brains are just a little bit of a mess when it comes to this stuff 😂😭. Maybe he’s embarrassed the way he ended things, maybe seeing you on social media gives him feels he doesn’t want or understand, etc.

If anything, I’d try to take it as a blessing in disguise. Now you don’t have to see him on any social media and you weren’t even the one doing it as a dick move

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thepassionateflower in reply toLaurennnnnnn

it’s a thing as little as pinterest and i just saw it. i don’t know when he did it but seriously? the big ones i can understand, even though it all just sucks. it’s like i’m poo on the bottom of his shoes now.

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Laurennnnnnn in reply tothepassionateflower

Pinterest???? Damn that’s a new one, I’ve never heard of a guy use it to be shady 😩

And if you feel like you’re poo on the bottom of his shoes, that tells you everything. I know it’s really really hard to get out of relationships but it’ll be worth it in the end. Your happiness is important and you deserve it all

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thepassionateflower in reply toLaurennnnnnn

it tells me everything? :( i thought a year would mean so much more to him because he reassured me all the time how good we were and how much he loved me and how he wanted a future with me. he never gave me any reason to doubt him, and i’m someone who already has a lot of trust issues because of past things i’ve gone through. it literally was in the blink of an eye that he ended things. why do guys expect girls to be over long relationships in a month or less?

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thepassionateflower in reply tothepassionateflower

or better question, how did he expect me to not be angry at him for the first month? it’s like i’m supposed to be where he’s at emotionally and if i’m not then i’m “too different”

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thepassionateflower in reply tothepassionateflower

why do exes have to be so cruel? i meant the world to him at one point, and i understand that feelings change, but how come the relationship itself, especially if it was a good one, and the love you have/had for another person isn’t enough to give them respect and kindness when things end? it should all be worth something more than disses and acting like they’re nothing but just another human existence they don’t care about.

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hypercat54 in reply tothepassionateflower

Maybe I'm out of touch but I can't understand how he can delete all your social media? Surely if he knows your account details and deletes them you can make new ones?

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thepassionateflower in reply tohypercat54

oh no 😂 i meant that he took me off of all of his, like all of our pictures and unfollowed me

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thepassionateflower in reply tothepassionateflower

is it bad that i can get mean if he does? it comes from a place of defense and anger that he’s being so awful. but i don’t go into it being anything but calm. why do they have to just go head first into cruelty?

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