Sharing my problem.. hoping for some suggestion to heal..

[Lotus1991]

I am 29 year old mother of 2 year's old son. His father cum my husband left us when I was 7 months pregnant. From that day I am single mother. I am working women so couldn't left the job. Finding the way to live happily with my son in this present situation. But it's difficult to be alone n work. Troubling parents in there old aged. Facing high BP problems. Could not understand how to be happy..

[SongAndSoul]

I am so sorry that you are going through this.

It sounds like you need support.

Please do seek it here...reach out anytime.

Also, is it possible for you to get some Counseling support?

What kinds of things do you do for “Self Care?”

Please be gentle with yourself and practice self care. 🌻

[Witsend8]

Hi, my neice is also a single working mom since she was 18. It was and still is very hard. The love you have for your child will be enough but you do need some help. I know and understand about your parents, but grandparents love grandchildren around maybe in Time staying over. You then get some free time for you. Do you still have your friends around? Momsnet online is good help and ideas too.

Do try to get to speak to someone for counselling or support whatever you're happy with. You will do it. Neice went on to have a second child some years later, still working single mom. It's just her life now xxx

[PNIAuthor60]

I am sorry to hear of such heartache, Lotus1991. It has been decades since I was left alone with two young boys. My best support came from loving friends and a church family that filled a huge void in my life. I am still alone by choice and my sons are in their 40's.

As a woman of faith, I chose to believe and still do that God and I can handle anything together.

Nourish yourself with relationships of other young Mom's - you are sure to learn from one another and your child could become friends with other children.

Enjoy seeing the world through the eyes of your child. Each dat can be a wonderful adventure.

[Tonyhope]

You will be just fine. Keep love close to you and everything else will follow. Im a 43yr old male with no relatives. At least you have your son. You can do it